男孩和女孩是如何被抚养长大的英语作文

2024年3月9日发(作者：足球飞)

男孩和女孩是如何被抚养长大的英语作文

At prent, in most families, the parenting of children is mainly the

responsibility of mothers, and our mothers are also very conscientious. Some

mothers quit their jobs to take care of their children, some mothers continue to

study in order to better educate their children, and some mothers In order for the

child to go to a good school, Meng’s mother moved three times, all the are no

problem, but boys and girls are different and need different ways of raising them.

Today we will take a look at how to better rai boys and girls.

From birth to about two years old, children have no gender awareness.

Mothers can rai them in the same way. For example, the focus of parenting at

0-1 years old is to actively respond to children, establish a cure attachment

relationship with children, and satisfy children's oral nsitive period of sucking.

and exploration needs. The focus of parenting in the anal period of 1-3 years is

defecation training. Regarding defecation training, I would like to emphasize here

that defecation training and lf-control are cloly related to children. The best

training time is one and a half to two years old. Premature urination will make the

child less confident, and the child cannot make his own decisions about whether

he can control his own body, especially when diapers are criticized for bedwetting.

Will feel very ashamed, feel that they are not good, and feel that they are someone

who cannot meet the requirements of others; however, if the child is very old and

does not carry out defecation training, such a child will easily do what he wants to

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do when he grows up, and there are no rules. There is no way to control yourlf

without a system.

After about two or three years of age, the difference between the xes of the

child gradually becomes apparent. At this time, we must treat them differently.

Let's take a look at how to better rai boys.

Usually, boys' language ability develops later than girls', and their motor

ability is earlier. Some mothers are not interested in their children's motor ability,

but pay more attention to the learning of knowledge. Therefore, when a boy jumps

up and down crazily, he will be criticized as being naughty. Under such intentional

or unintentional guidance, the boy will also try to restrain his physical vitality and

move clor to the girl's specialties, such as playing some relatively quiet games. ,

such as origami, puzzles, spinning tops, etc.

In addition to valuing knowledge-bad learning, some mothers also want

their sons to be neat, wi, and well-behaved. Boys after the age of two or three

are extremely energetic and full of curiosity about the world: if you tell him what

not to touch, you are telling him that it is fun; if you tell him where you cannot go,

you are telling him that place Very mysterious; it is against the law of physical and

mental development for boys to be well-behaved and quiet.

With the physical and psychological development of two- or three-year-old

boys, the genitals begin to change, and children will involuntarily pay attention

and touch them with their hands. Some mothers will feel unbearable, and will feel

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