中外礼仪差异（Etiquette differences between China and foreign
countries）
Communicative language differences
(beginning)
1. Appellation terms, in Chine, only tho who are familiar with each other can only call their names". But in the west, "first name" is much broader than in chine. In the west, "Sir" and "madam" are often ud to address strangers who do not know their names. Women who are in their teens or twenties can be called "Miss", and married women can be called "Lady" or "madam". Among family members, regardless of pecking order, and can be called each other names or nicknames. At home, you can call your father and mother directly. For all male elders can be called "Uncle", for all the female elders can be called "aunt"". It is not in our Chine, must distinguish degress, young and old relationship, otherwi it will be considered rude. AddressingBoth western and Chine people have two kinds of and personal names---a surname
A given name. But the order and are the u of the names in the two languages
Somewhat different. In Chine, the surname comes first and then the given name
And people like add "small" before their family name. Such as "Xiao Wang" and "Xiao Zheng"",
"Xiao Li" and "Xiao Xu" and so on.. While Westerners names are written and spoken with
The given name first and the family name last. So John Smith's family name is Smith, not John. In a formal tting, address men as "Mister" (abbreviated as "Mr")
"," married, women, as "Miss" (abbreviated as "Mrs."), and unmarried women as"
致命诡计Miss "(abbreviated as" Ms. "). The days many women prefer to be addresd using
The abbreviations "Ms." or "M.", pronounced "Miz". If the person has an M.D. or
Ph.D., they will often be addresd as "Doctor" (abbreviated as "Dr."). Faculty
Are addresd as "Professor" (abbreviated as "Prof.").In an informal situation,
Westerners will introduce each other by first name, without titles, and occasionally by just the last name. If you are introduced to somebody by first name, you can address him or her by first name the surgery
next time you meet. The only exception would be for someone who holds an important position, such as the university president or provost. Unless they tell you otherwi faculty should be addresd
Using their title and last name (e.g., "Professor Smith"). When
in doubt, u the formal manner of address, since it is better to err on the formality. side of
余姚万达广场It is also appropriate to ask how they prefer to be should addresd. Children
Always address adults in the formal fashion, using their title and last name.
Another difference is about the form of addressing. From the viewpoint of sociolinguistics, forms of addressing can rve as an indication of the relationship of power and solidarity in the society. In calling their superiors or elders, the
中国人习惯了不可逆的或不对称的寻址，换句话说。他们用“姓+姓”称呼长辈或长辈。
不是叫他们的姓，而上级或长辈叫addresrs他们
名称。中国人倾向于遵守贬低自己的礼貌原则
尊重他人对人显示恰当的方面被解决，否则，人可能会被视为不礼貌，没教养或粗鲁的。但在英语国家，人们倾向于遵循对等或对称的称呼。虽然他们年龄不同，但
他们可以直接称呼对方，也就是他们的名字，甚至名字。
除非他们给医生打电话，不要冒犯他们，而是要表现出亲密感和“人人生而平等”的观念。
。中国人在称呼西方人时用自己的名字来称呼别人是不自然的，另一
方面，西方人则觉得这关系太亲密，
可能会觉得，如果一个中国人坚持使用他的姓氏，那就意味着他们不愿意友好相处，并保持他们之间的差距。因此，使用“玛丽小姐”或“史米斯先生”等形式可能是中国式的妥协。在玛丽小姐看来，用名字表示友好，但加上头衔则表示尊敬。和史米斯一起
缺乏头衔表示友好，但姓氏的使用可以防止听起来过于亲密。然而，这两种称谓对西方人来说都非常陌生和不舒服。
2、问候语，劝告和建议
问个人事务
中国人并不认为这是要求个人事务时，问别人的名字、年、婚姻状况、工资、个人生活、信仰和政治观点。这是值得关注的。而西方人会认为你侵犯权利
隐私权。当我们和西方人，我们必须避免问一些这样的问题：“你多大了？“你结婚了吗？”“你有几个孩子？”
snake什么意思
隐之书>shutoff“你挣多少钱？”，“你体重多少？”“、“你去教堂吗？”西方人非常注重个人隐私权。在日常交谈中，大家一般不会涉及对方的”私人问题”。这些私人问题包括：年龄、婚姻状况、收入、工作、住所、经历、宗教信仰、选举等
chicks在中国，我们总是说“你辛苦了、”你一定累了吧！”！
“向远方的人表示我们的关心。”。而西方人则用不同的方式去完成它。
他们会说：“你的旅行怎么样？”你一定很有趣。”这些句子
都表现在心理方面吗？。老年人是人类的美德。但是，不同的文化有不同的风格。在中国，人们
会说“您年纪大了，你坐吧！”当他们让座一老人。但这被认为是八年级上册英语电子书
为禁忌。
encore une fois如在和病人告别时，中国人常说”多喝点开水”、”多穿点衣服”、”早点休息”之类的话，表示对病人的关怀。但西方人绝不会说”多喝水”之类的话，因为这样说会被认为有指手画脚之嫌。比如他们会说”多保重”或”希望你早日康复”等等一位美国同事感冒了，中国同事表示关心。bluebird
中国人：你脸色苍白。怎么了
美国人：我感觉不舒服。也许是感冒。
中国人：去看医生。多喝水。你吃过什么药吗？中医作品精彩。你想试试吗？多穿点衣服。好好休息。
美国人：你不是我妈妈，是吗？
文化差异：美国人比较看中个人的独立性。受人照顾往往被视为弱者。给对方出主意或提建议时，不能使对方认为自己小看他的能力美国人对上面第一句话的反应通常是“好好照顾自己。我希望你能很快好起来。”不必教人怎么做。中国人则以出主意提建议表示关心，而且以兄弟姐妹或父母亲人的口吻，或以过来人的口气，这对美国人行不通。
特别忠告：对病人表示关心，不必尽提建议。
