T : Hi yangxue ,I heard that you are going to studying abroad ,it ‘s a new experience ,which can bring you opportunity to discover fascinating things and a feeling of freedom.
Y : Oh !yeah ,in spite of this advantages, however there are also some challenges I will encounter. Culture shock will be the first one.
T: yeah, I have watched veral movies about western lifestyles and cultures, and really find an immen difference.
Y: Yeah, the difference is almost everywhere. As far as the table culture, there is no doubt it is a tradition to u chopsticks for Chine. But people in America prefer to forks and knives.
T： The different tools are bad on different food they like. Fried food and fast food are Americans’ favorite while Chine people choo noodles, pancakes and rice.
证明信英文Y: Yes, besides, have you noticed that when we have meals with our families or good friends, we usually get some delicious food for each other to show our care. But the west
lpl什么意思ern style of eating ems to be more hygienic. Nobody us his own fork to get food for others.
T：Yeah, quite so. This is only table manners. I also know that greeting is different. In China, when I meet you in the street, I may greet you by saying “Have you eaten yet?” And what will be your reflect?
Y: Oh, I will feel normal. Pretty normal greeting words.
T：But if you greet a foreigner with the words. They will believe that you want to invite him to a meal.
Y: Really? Too interesting.
T：So it’s easy to lead to misunderstanding becau of different cultures. Of cour, the situations are more rious if you greet someone in western countries by saying “What are you going to do?” “Where have you been?” etc. Becau they think you have infringed their privacy. Thus，you can imagine their greetings, they usually greet each oth
er “Good morning/evening/afternoon. “Fine day, isn’t it? ”
Y: But don’t you feel the are too formulaic or unnecessary?
T：Yes, but that’s only our thinking.
Y: Just now, you referred to personal affairs ,there is also many different opinions here. For example, we do not regard it as asking personal affairs when they ask others name、year、marital status、wages、personal life、belief and political points.
T：Yes, we regard it as concerns.
rver is too busyY: But the westerns will think you infringe their right of privacy. So when we talk to the westerns, we must avoid asking some questions like this:“ How old are you?”、“Are you married？加减乘除英语>学习资料”、“How many children do you have六年级下册英语？”、“How much do you make？”、“What’s your weight?”、“Do you go to the church？”
breezeT：So many details need to notice. We have talked so much, but it only covers veral s
mall aspects in life. I even feel the way of life in America is completely different from mine. I think I will be mad facing all the. Now that you will go there. Have you consider how to adjust yourlf to adapt their cultures?
Y: In fact, I have considered the problem for long time. At least four esntial stages of adjustment occur during culture shock to new arrivals. I will keep positive to overcome the. As we know , Americans are slaves to nothing but clocks ,they work hard at the task of saving time . I must get rid of the habit of delaying time to keep pace with them. It’s huge project.
T：bbo>常州国际学校Yeah, yeah. You should establish a right attitude toward culture differences, to be open-minded to them. After all, attitude can decide one’s feeling and behaving. However, the em not to be enough.
Y: That’s true. I also need to learn about their cultural background before I go. And I have read some books and gradually accept their ways of life. Next, I am going to read their newspapers and magazines and some literature works to learn the country deeply.
T：Yeah, your decision is right and it will benefit you. You would learn so much and you will respect their culture from your deep heart. Thus, you can adapt to the life there more quickly and suffer from little culture shock.
Y: I think so too. At least, I can avoid unintentionally offending others and make less jokes.verbatim
T：Of cour, I believe your ability.
