1. Do you think marriages bad on love are more successful than arranged marriages
（1）Yes, I think marriages bad on love are more successful than arranged marriages. We can’t be happy if we get married without love. Although arranged marriages will get the support of our parents, but marry someone we don’t understand is really terrible. Furthermore, arranged marriages have a higher divorce rate. In a word, marriages bad on love are more successful.
（2）No, I think arranged marriages are more successful than marriages bad on love. Our parents hope us to be matched for marriage(门当户对), it contains their love for us. What’s more They have a lot of experience on insight into others, so they can’t be wrong.
2. Where do you want to go to prepare for your marriage And why
（1）I’d rather stay at home than going out for my marriage. Becau it will save a lot of money for our future life. I wouldn’t like the life with no money to u after the marriage.
（2）I will choo to spend my honeymoons on travelling abroad. It is the most important days of my life. The beautiful scenery will become the most unforgettable experience of my memory.
do you think of Qianzhongshu's words: marriage is the grave of love
I don’t think so .Marriage brings responsibility to the couple, but it is not the necessary reason to destroy love. Many old couples’ love can prove all of this, the couples may have disagreements, quarrels after their marriages. But if they only put judgement on the things instead of complainting of others, the bad things will go away soon. Moreover , the relationship will become more intimate between the couples. The children are the achievement of love. With the child , the marriage becomes more beautiful.
you accept flash marriage why or why not
Yes ,becau we can take the chance to have the person who you like very much at the first sight to be our partner in time .Moreover, as we all know in modern times ,time is
a very important factor ,flash marriage saves much time compared to the common marriage .Meanwhile ,in correct time run into the right person is the most important ,and the speed of marriage is less influential in one’s happiness. Finally, whether the love of Marathon type can definitely understand the other party, can definitely promi marriage of last long happiness Appearantly the answer is not.
No, Firstly, as in flash marriage we don’t learn much about the other part , so in some degree the marriage will not last long, and the happiness very short ,but the harm it does to us can be very great . Also, some persons who are for the flash marriage may have the purpo of getting the partner’s property or some other benefits, so that kind of happiness is not true. when the other person find out that ,the emotion between the two person will be likely to break. Thus, the flash marriage may rai the rate of divorce, and make the society less harmonious. Last but not the least ,I am a traditional person and flash marriage disobey the tradition of china.
are the important qualities in choosing your marriage partner
A. Well, In my opinion, Be effort is the first important. That is, putting a lot of time and energy into the marriage in order for the marriage to become what we want it to be. Efforts will lead the marriage to a bright future. Then, supportive, I will be much more respectful of my wife if she support me without rerve. Otherwi, if I have difficulties I'll feel as though she's adding to my troubles. Third, be optimism is weighty too, when the family is facing something tough, Optimistic will help us to make it through.
do you think is the reason which resulted the increasing divorce rate in modern society
A. I think one of the most important reason is the financial situation. As economic developing, the personal incoming increa, the financial dependence become weaker and weaker, that lead the divorce rate increa. In the past or some poverty-stricken areas, where people live with low living standards, to live together will save more money than live alone, the divorce rate could be low. So, as economic situation improves, the divorce rate increas .
