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                    LOVE AND LOVING RELATIONSHIPS
                                            Nijole V. Benokraitis
                      爱和情感连系 奈杰尔·贝诺克瑞提斯
1 Love- as both an emotion and a behavior- is esntial for human survival- The family is usually our earliest and most important source of love and emotional support. Babies and children deprived of love have been known to develop a wide variety of problems- for example, depression, headaches, physiological impairments, and neurotic and psychosomatic difficulties- that sometimes last a lifetime. In contrast, infants who are loved and cuddled typically gain more weight, cry less, and smile more. By five years of age, they have been found to have significantly higher IQs and to score higher on language tests.  英文大写数字
1爱,对于人类的生存是不可或缺的;它既是一种情感,又是一种行为;家庭通常是我们最早和最重要的爱和情感支持的来源;众所周知,缺乏爱的婴幼儿会产生各种各样的问题,如抑郁症、头痛、生理残疾、神经质或身心疾病,这些病有时会伴随他们一生;而对比之下,拥有爱和拥抱的
婴儿通常体重增加得快,哭得少,而笑得多;到了五岁时,他们的智商和语言测试的分数明显比前一类儿童高得多;
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赵武灵王 2  Much rearch shows that the quality of care infants receive affects how they later get along with friends, how well they do in school, how they react to new and possibly stressful situations, and how they form and maintain loving relationships as adults. It is for the reasons that people's early intimate relationships within their family of origin1 are so critical. Children who are raid in impersonal environments orphanage, some foster homes, or unloving families show emotional and social underdevelopment, language and motor skills retardation, and mental health problems. 2很多研究发现婴儿获得关爱的质量会影响到他们以后的交友,在学校的表现,如何应对陌生的或可能充满压力的情况,以及他们成年后如何建立并且维系情感连系;正是因为这些原因,人们与家庭成员的早期亲密关系才如此至关重要;在人情冷漠的环境中如孤儿院,某些寄养家庭,或缺乏关爱的家庭长大的孩子会出现情感和社会性发育不良,语言和运动技能迟缓,以及精神健康问题;
3 Love for onelf, or lf-love, is also esntial for our social and emotional development.实验室管理
Actress Mae West once said, "I never loved another person the way I loved mylf." Although such a statement may em lf-centered, it's actually quite insightful Social scientists describe lf-love as an important oasis for lf- esteem. Among other things, people who like themlves are more open to criticism and less demanding of others. Fromm 1956 saw lf-love as a necessary prerequisite for loving others. People who don't like themlves may not be able to return love but may constancy ek love relationships to bolster their own poor lf-images. But just what is love  What brings people together 
3对自己的爱,或者说自爱,对我们的社会性和情感发展也是至关重要的;女演员梅·韦斯特曾说过,“我从没有像爱自己那样爱过别人;”虽然这样的话听起来似乎有些以自我为中心,实际上却是相当有见地;社会学家将自爱描述为自尊的一个重要基础;从别的方面来说,自我喜欢的人更乐于接受批评,对别人的要求也不那么苛刻;弗罗姆1956认为自爱是爱别人的先决条件;不喜欢自己的人也许不懂得回报爱,而却有可能不停地寻找爱的关系来改变卑微的自我形象;那么到底什么是爱 是什么让人们走到一起 
4 Love is an elusive concept. We have all experienced love and feel we know what it is; however, when asked what love is, people give a variety of answers. According to a nine- year-old boy, for example, "Love is like an avalanche where you have to run for your life." What we mean by love depends on whether we are talking about love for family members, friends, or lovers. Love has been a source of inspiration, wry witticisms, and even political action for many centuries.
4爱是一个难以描述的概念;我们都经历过爱,觉得我们知道爱是什么,然而当被问到什么是爱时,人们给出的答案却不尽相同,比如一个九岁的男孩说,“爱像雪崩,你必须快跑才能活命;”爱对我们来说意味着什么,这取决于我们所指的是家人之间、朋友之间还是恋人之间的爱;几百年来爱都是灵感、俏皮的揶揄、甚至是政治活动的来源;
5 Love has many dimensions. It can be romantic, exciting, obssive, and irrational- It can also be platonic, calming, altruistic, and nsible  Many rearchers feel that love defies a single definition becau it varies in degree and intensity and across social contexts. At the very least, three elements are necessary for a loving  relationship: 1 a will
ingness to plea and accommodate the other person, even if this involves compromi and sacrifice; 2 an acceptance of the other person's faults and shortcomings; and 3 as much concern about the loved one's welfare as one's own. And, people who say they are "in love" emphasize caring, intimacy, and commitment.
5爱有很多层面,它可能是浪漫的,令人激动的,让人着迷的,或者是非理性的;它也可能是柏拉图式的,令人平静的,无私的,或者理智的;许多研究者觉得爱没有一个唯一的定义,它有程度和强度之分,并且跨越了社会背景;拥有恋爱关系至少需要具备三个元素:1愿意取悦和迁就另一方,即使需要妥协或牺牲;2能接受另一方的错误和缺点;3关心爱人的幸福像关心自己一样;而且,说自己“处于恋爱中”的人们重视相互之间的关心自己一样;而且,说自己“处于恋爱中”的人们重视相互之间的关心、亲密和忠诚;
看透6 In any type of love, caring about the other person is esntial. Although love may, involve passionate yearning, respect is a more important quality. Respect is inherent in all love: "I want the loved person to grow and unfold for his own sake, and in his own ways, and not for the purpo of rving me."  If respect and caring are missing, the relationship 傅斯年
沉睡魔咒2is not bad on love. Instead, it is an unhealthy or posssive dependency that limits the lovers' social, emotional, and intellectual growth.
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6不管是哪种类型的爱,关心另一方是非常必要的;虽然爱可能包含激情的渴望,然而相互尊重才是更重要的品质;相互尊重是所有爱的共性:“我想要我爱的人为他自己成长发展,并且用他自己的方式,而不是为了迎合我;”如果没有尊重和关怀,两人的关系就不是建立在爱的基础上;反而成为一种不健康的或者是具有占有欲的依赖,而这会限制爱的双方在社会、情感和智力方面的发展; 7 Love, especially long-term love, has nothing in common with the images of love or .frenzied x that we get from Hollywood, television, and romance novels. Becau of the images, many people believe a variety of myths about love. The misconceptions often lead to unrealistic expectations, stereotypes, and disillusionment. In fact, "real" love is clor to what one author called "stirring-the-oatmeal love" Johnson 1985. This type of love is neither exciting nor thrilling but is relatively mundane and unromantic. It means paying bills, putting out the garbage, scrubbing toilet bowls, being up all night with a sick baby, and performing myriad other ' oatmeal" tasks that are not very xy.

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