英语作文是否应该改变自己去迎合别人
I think, don't change yourlf to cater.In this world, everyone is born at the moment it is unique, no one can replace it.Just like a leaf, emingly similar to other leaves, but never any two leaves are exactly the same. So no matter who the other person is, don't change yourlf to cater to them.Becau if you change, it's not you, but another person.In other words, even if you change yourlf right now to cater to each other person, you will only be at a loss, becau you can never meet all of the other person's needs. So the most important thing for us is to live our own lives, not to change ourlves to cater to others.People live their own is real, if blindly imitate, it will become gradually lo their own. The People who have contacted and understood me, and the people who have really walked into my life, will actually feel my sincerity and truth.Although sometimes becau of my own reasons, I will often say something that makes others dissatisfied, and do some things that make others unhappy, but that is mylf, that is the truth of my life, becau this truth, will also make me feel very practical. When I am confud, when I hesitate, and then when I do not know what to do, when I make a certain choice, I always tell mylf, so that I
can give mylf more time to touch mylf, where the heart is touched will have the answer.Listen to the inner voice, follow the call of the heart, and I will have a clear conscience of what I have done. But we are people, when not standing around you love you people, a person alone, I usually let yourlf silent, quietly stay in a place, quietly read books, or quietly let the brain really calm down, let yourlf to imagine you want a what kind of answer, to ek such an answer, how should you do it?Slowly, all the answers will surface. Sometimes also admire yourlf, in fact, has always had a great courage, constantly to challenge and change themlves, and action after no regret, say to say, do to do, want to go, to leave or will stay, I in my own heart to do my own thing, even if the result is not satisfactory, I am also willing to accept. I am still willing to live in order to stick to mylf, even if there are fewer and fewer inner friends, then what harm?Becau when a lot of so-called friends are gone away, that is willing to accompany me to cry, accompany me to laugh, accompany me to make trouble, no matter any time I need her in the good sister, do not still maintain the recognition and respect for me? Of cour, shuttling between the numerous living beings, I am not every time I have the cour
age and wisdom, to take off all my masks, becau not every time I am willing to let mylf clear and clearly, more time I just want to find a quiet corner quietly rest. The sky is the same sky, but can not find the same cloud living in the same earth, but there is not the same road to e the same a, but can not find the same spray, live the same night, all of us will not be the same dream.
So people won't be the same after all.If we in order to get others and invested a lot of time and energy, if becau we don't get the favor of others and sleep and sleep, if our lives have been ud to ek others, so, you should reflect, not so much eking others recognition is the need of life, as your own personal desire at work. In our whole life, if you will be recognized by others, as an indispensable thing in your life, you have already dedicated a part of your personal value to "others", becau you cannot leave the vision and requirements of others.If someone put forward criticism and opinions to you, you will inevitably produce depresd, in this ca, you will put lf-worth under the control of others, you will care about others care about, like others holding a rope, only when it gives you some prai or affirmation, your heart will be steadfast. If you want to do somet
hing in your life, you must completely eliminate your urgent need for other recognition, it can be our spiritual food, can also be like a beacon, we can have the motivation to move forward, but remember that we can not lo ourlves, can not lo the lf. In our lives, It will also encounter uncertainty from others, It is a normal state of life, And a thing that it is not possible to avoid, 1000 People with 1000 Hamlets, Also remember, If a person's life has not been parated from the recognition of others, It is very difficult to ek truth from facts, For example, if you want to be recognized by someone, Then you will plea each other from time to time, In the long run, Even if you've been this to others, The person that you really want to associate with, I don't make you a friend, either, Becau he feels like you're not an honest person. So the right way to do it is to express your ideas clearly, rather than abandoning your values to cater to the other person's views and preferences.
