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As we know, people are starved for love. They watch endless numbers of films about happy and unhappy love stories and listen to hundreds of trashy songs about love, yet hardly anyone considers that there is anything that needs to be learned about how to win love.
Franklin had said that:” If you would be loved, love and be lovable.” I think he want to tell us that if you are going to love a boy or a girl, you must do two things, to love with your heart and to know how to be lovable.
Generally speaking, you should make yourlf attractive and lovable, since love usually starts from physical attraction. To achieve this goal, you may develop pleasant manners, interesting conversation, to be helpful, modest and inoffensive. For further relationship, you must know that love is respect, wanting to help that person in any aspect of his or her live. You should make your lover feel safe with you, be proud of being with you and share hopes and dreams with you. That is to say, you will be together with your lover no matter what and continue on until the day you pass away.
May love live forever!
Love will build your heart with its dreamy songs and create a magical world for you to live in. How will you ensure that they whom you love so much will love you? How will you be certain of winning love?
Undertake this visual. Enjoy this constant pleasure that it will bring you. And feel for yourlf how wonderful your love life has become.
You are in love with someone. You want that someone to love you too. What do you do? Simple! Visualize! Remember, love has everything to do with your heart and mind. If you can keep your heart healthy and in good relation with you, then you can have all the love you want.
Picture your heart. You may visualize it like am actual biological heart, or it may even be a symbolic valentine heart.
Go ahead and ask your heart about how it is feeling today. Is it feeling sad? Lonely? Disappointed? Understand the way it is feeling. Hear what it has to say to you. Then tell your heart that you are trying to make it feel better.
What is the condition of your heart? Is it sad? Or is it youthful. Does it look healthy? Or is
it torn or wounded? Is it wounded? Now repair your heart. You have all the tools required. If it is torn at places, stitch them. If it is wounded, then treat it’s wound.
When your heart looks healthy, fill it to the brim with light. Imagine the shining light flow into your heart and reach it’s every nook and corner. Your heart is not only healthy now it even feels alive. Listen to your heartbeats?
Make it feel good. Thank your heart for keeping you alive. Applaud its tireless performance. The more you thank your heart, the healthier it gets.
Now that your heart is healthy and happy, you are now ready to win love. Picture the person you love or whom you desire the most. See the person clearly? How does she/he look? What color is the hair? What kind of clothes he/she is wearing? How tall is the person? Is there any gesture that is distinctively his/hers?
Let the person appear in front of you. How far is the person? Bring him/her clor to at the most five feet away from you. Now, picture your healthy heart connected to his/her heart. You may u any material you like for connection. A rope, chain, satin ribbon – it can be just anything. It can be even imaginary. The goal is to connect love to love, so a s
en of energy flows between you both.
Once you have connected love, visualize yourlf doing something loving to the person you love. Do anything that people who love each other does. Walk hand in hand, go for a dance, sit across for some ice cream, love each other, hug each other – you may even kiss each other.
The more you visualize the person you love in the way described above, the stronger the love flows between you both. Until one day, you really embrace and kiss the person to say how much you love her/him.
And if ever you feel that love is beginning to fade, go through the visualization again.
Let LOVE live forever.
英语作文研究生一年级下学期
1.How to win love
The youth frequently ask how to win love. In my opinion, before planning to win love, you have to understand exactly the meaning of true love. It is impossible to g
ain some thing who meaning you don’t know. So, what is the authentic love?
The most centre meaning of love is to tolerate imperfection. As we all know, there is no perfect thing in the world, hence, nobody is perfect but God. You must be aware of many sides of the other person, including his/her limitation, inconsistencies and flaws. In a love relationship there are times of boredom, real strain etc., besides happiness. Someone says that love comes into an imperfect world to make it livable. Therefore, to know the person from whom you are going to win love is the first step. Then, enduring rough times when you feel like giving up and experiencing an impas.
Additionally, love is independence-not excessive dependence on the person for your meaning and survival. Love is freeing, so, plea give more space for you and the person you love to develop.
Simply put, you will win love, if you completely understand Fromm’s words: Mature love is union under the condition of prerving one’s integrity, one’s individuality. I
n love this paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two.
2.The Fourth Millennium in My Eyes
Technology has shrunk the globe and stretched our lives and our minds, and, this situation will continue as long as human society exists. What will the fourth millennium look like?
In my eyes, a thousand years later, there will be great changes in many areas. But, the future will not be utterly foreign, becau human nature will not change. Taking education, new electronic equipments and new modes of education will be popularized, such as on line schools. All the revolution, however, will not make the schoolroom obsolete, for the interactions among students and teachers are esntial to the students’ forming characters. As for computer, it will be ud in all kinds of fields to rve us—not control. Blooming virtual society, for instance e-community, will increa communicating convenience and ways of entertainment. Yet, virtual reality will never make us permanent antisocial shut-ins. Becau, being social species, humans have instincts to communicat
e by face-to-face contact.
All in all, People in the world of 3000, I think, will live in the world in which technology will enrich rather than dominate human lives.
3.The Organic Foods
Are organically grown foods the best food choices? The advantages claimed for such foods over conventionally grown and marketed food products are now being debated.
The organic foods are purely natural products without using chemical agent, such as chemical fertilizer or pesticide, during the growing process. Many people believe that such foods are safer and more nutritious than the foods produced on a large scale by traditional methods. That may be right, for the natural nutrients are not destroyed in their growth cycles. Nonetheless, it is pity that there is no scientific evidence to support it. On the contrary, I know that some natural products, for instance some bee products, which are poisonous in themlves, have to be procesd for diet. The key forming the view, I t
hink, is that the organic foods are more delicious and tasteful. Comparatively speaking, the organic foods are too costly and inefficient, for their long growing time and inadaptability to mass production, to meet needs of population growth.
