There is a problem each of us faces in following advice on emotional healing: ap

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There is a problem each of us faces in following advice on emotional healing: apologizing is difficult. We are trapped in what we think of ourlves by holding onto our pride. We can be lfish and not willing to admit our most obvious mistakes. Pride eats away at us as we argue or ignore the mistake. It's happened to me. I have had too much pride and lfishness to apologize to a loved one I hurt. When I did want to apologize, I couldn't bring mylf to face the other person. This is the pride I'm talking about. Maybe apologies come difficult for men becau they're expected to be dominant. It's like the joke that a man never asks for directions when lost. Ladies are more emotionally open than guys and are willing to express it. Still, both genders wonder how to correctly apologize. In shifting the focus on apologizing away from you, what does not apologizing do to other people? They feel hurt that you are not willing to communicate your mistake. They lo trust in you as you hide behind your mistake avoiding reality. They become angry with you, wondering why you do not tell them the truth. They may begin to counter your lack of apologies by not apologizing themlves and from this the relationship goes downhill as the two of you get caught in a power struggle.You need to communicate your mistakes. A mistake you made is like a scratch and by not apologizing you are making the scratch a deeper wound and rubbing salt into it. You need to stop hurting the other person and yourlf by learning to apologize. There is real power in apologizing and emotional healing.小题1:Why are men more unwilling to make apologies?A．They don't intend to hurt other people.B．They expect others to forgive them.C．They don't want to be considered weak.D．They aren't good at expressing themlves.小题2:What bad effect will there be if you refu to apologize for your mistakes?A．Other people won't pay attention to you.B．You will lo confidence in yourlf.C．You won't be forgiven even if you tell the truth.D．The friendship will get hurt and go wor.小题3:From the last paragraph, it can be inferred that  .A．communication can stop you making mistakesB．mistakes would turn into deeper scratchesC．apologizing is good for you and other peopleD．apologizing is the most powerful in emotional healing 题型：未知难度：其他题型

答案

小题1:C小题2:D小题3:C 

解析

文章大意：向别人道歉是很困难的。作者以自身亲身经历说明了道歉的困难性，并说明了怎么道歉。小题1:C细节理解题。根据文章第一段：We can be lfish and not willing to admit our most obvious mistakes.可知答案。故C正确。小题2:D细节理解题。由第三段They may begin to counter your lack of apologies by not apologizing themlves and from this the relationship goes downhill as the two of you get caught in a power struggle.可以得出答案。故D正确。小题3:C推理判断题。根据本段的意思，特别是文章的第一句：There is real power in apologizing and emotional healing.可知道歉对自己和他人都有好处。故C正确。

考点

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人生感悟类阅读的概念：

生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。

生活感悟类阅读解题指导：

一、文章特点： 生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。二、解题技巧：针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。