We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most

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We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes are about people. "Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?" "When I got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it, as a friend? Or did he envy my luck? “And Paul, why didn't pick up that he was friendly just becau I had a car?" When we look back, doubts like the can make us feel bad. But when we look back, it's too late. Why do we go wrong about our friends—or our enemies? Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning. And if we don't really listen we miss the feeling behind the words. Suppo someone tells you, "You're a lucky dog, "and that's being friendly. But "lucky dog"? There's a bit of envy in tho words. Maybe he doesn't e it himlf. But bringing in the "dog" bit puts you down a little, what he may be saying is that he doesn't think you derve your luck. "Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for" is another noi that says one thing and means another. It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to e your problem as part of your life as a whole. But is he? Wrapped up in this phra is the thought that your problem isn't important. It's telling you to think of all the starving people in the world when you haven't got a date for Saturday night. How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s words? One way is to take a good look at the person talking. Do his words fit the way he looks? Does what he says agree with the tone of voice? His posture? The look in his eyes? Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake. 62. This passage is mainly about ______. A. how to interpret what people sayB. what to do when you listen to others talkingC. why we go wrong with people and how to avoid the mistakesD. why we go wrong with people sometimes63. According to the author, the reason why we go wrong about our friends is that   . A. we fail to listen carefully when they talk  B. we tend to doubt what our friends sayC. people tend to be annoyed when we check what they sayD. people usually state one thing but mean another. 64. The underlined word "it" in the cond paragraph refers to______. A. being friendly   B. a bit of envy    C. lucky dog   D. your luck65. When we listen to a person talking, the most important thing for us to do is __. A. notice the way the person is talkingB. take a good look at the person talkingC. mind his tone, his posture and the look in his eyesD. examine the real meaning of what he says bad on his manner, his tone and his posture66. The author is most probably a ______. A. teacher B. psychologist   C. philosopher    D. doctor 题型：未知难度：其他题型

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小题1:C小题2:D小题3:B小题4:D小题5:B

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考点

据考高分专家说，试题“We can make mistakes.....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。 人生感悟类阅读

人生感悟类阅读的概念：

生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。

生活感悟类阅读解题指导：

一、文章特点： 生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。二、解题技巧：针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。