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题文

    If you feel at prent that you don’t have enough friends in your life，one reason may be that you have let yourlf become too busy to make time for the relationships you already have．Starting and keeping friendship requires effort and commitment． Many of us let our lives become so busy with work and other commitments that we don’t get around to scheduling time for pleasure and renewal（叙旧）with the friends，relatives and acquaintances we already have． Making the effort to call your friends more regularly and to accept more of the invitations you receive from others can improve your social life in a hurry! Are there any people you could call right now and be assured of a pleasant welcome? Are there people that you could count on to help you in time of difficulty? Can you have clo talks with them? Do you have fun when you are together? Are you happy to have them in your life? If you haven’t en much of them lately。is it becau you have become too busy? Have you grown apart? Was there an argument? If the main reason you haven’t been getting together with the people you already know is that you have gotten too busy，take a good look at how you spend your time．Compare it with your real values and priorities（优先考虑的事）in life．Is your busy lifestyle really bringing you the quality of life that you want?    If you have become too busy for friends，why has this happened? Are you eking material toys in your life at the expen of relationships with other human beings? Have you allowed your time to be over．committed becau you never say“No”to anyone? Do you insist on doing things yourlf that could be delegated to others? If so，why? Do you believe that everything depends on you? Examine whether the way you are now spending your time accurately reflects your deepest values and priorities．Make sure that you schedule enough time for the things that are truly most important to you． If you really want to keep friends in your lire，make a space in your schedule，and a space in your heart for them．小题1:In this passage the author mainly discuss   ．A．how to balance friendship and workB．how to spend our spare timeC．whether we should keep friendshipD．whether we should invite friends to dinner小题2:Which of the following doesn’t indicate a good relationship?A．You have someone to count on when you are in trouble．B．You have someone to have clo talks with．C．You feel depresd with others in lifeD．You have fun when you are with someone小题3:The underlined word“delegated”probably means“   ”．A．appointedB．replacedC．declinedD．handled 题型：未知难度：其他题型

答案

小题1:A小题2:C小题3:A

解析

小题1:主旨大意题，根据文章的首尾段和每段的第一句可知，作者分析了缺少朋友的原因并给出了建议，其中最重要的就是平衡友谊和工作。小题2:细节题，根据第四段可知A、B、D都是良好人际关系的表现，只有C项与之相反。小题3:词义猜测题，“Do you insist 0n doing things yourlf that could be delegated to others?”由前后句的逻辑关系可知“be delegated to others”和“doing things yourlf”是对立的，delegate是“委派”的意思，常与介词to连用。

考点

据考高分专家说，试题“ If you feel at pres.....”主要考查你对 [人生感悟类阅读 ]考点的理解。 人生感悟类阅读

人生感悟类阅读的概念：

生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。

生活感悟类阅读解题指导：

一、文章特点： 生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。二、解题技巧：针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。