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题文

The key to a good interpersonal relationship is simple once you understand the role that needs play in making a relationship weak, moderate, average, or strong. A person who fails in a relationship is someone who neglects the needs of his or her partner. So the first step to establish a successful relationship is to find out what needs the other person has. It is also very important to understand your own needs so that you can help the other person in the relationship to meet your needs.Unfortunately, not only do many people fail to e or to understand their partner’s needs, but they do not understand their own. Children have wonderful relationships with their parents as long as their needs are being satisfied. When the needs are not satisfied, the relationship changes and problems ari. As a child grows, needs change; it is necessary that parents recognize the changes. As it is with the child to the parents, it is also with the parents to the child.The way to recognize the needs of other people is by their respons to you. When you do or say something and you get a positive respon, you are well on the way to being recognized. The same goes for you. What is it that you respond to in a positive manner? What do you feel good about getting and about doing? What are you totally guiltless about? What can you do with complete confidence and fearlessness? What emotional scene can you control without fear or guilt? Look in the areas for your needs and you will in all probability find your answers.As stated, our own needs are often hidden. The techniques covered in the power of lf-mind control will allow you to discover your needs and show you who you are in regard to interpersonal relationships. Your effectiveness in influencing and dealing with people will greatly increa the power of lf-mind control.小题1:From the passage we learn that ________.A．it is hard to make good interpersonal relationshipsB．there are veral levels of relationships among peopleC．the success of different interpersonal relationships can be measured by needsD．the first step to establish a successful relationship is to know your own needs小题2:According to Paragraph 2, the most important factor in dealing with people is to ________.A．be kind to them and help themB．only think of their needsC．find out both your needs and theirsD．learn some interpersonal techniques小题3:Which of the following statements is NOT mentioned in the passage? A．A child’s needs change with his growth.B．A child should also know his parents’ needs.C．It’s easier to find your own needs than to find others’.D．You can learn what others need by their respons to you.小题4:The last two paragraphs are written mainly to tell us ________.A．why some people fail in a relationshipB．how to increa the power of lf-mind controlC．why our needs are often hiddenD．how to recognize others’ needs and yours 题型：未知难度：其他题型

答案

小题1:B小题2:C小题3:C小题4:D

解析

A本文主要讲述了人与人之间的关系，强调要处理好人际关系，我们必须要了解自己和他人的需要。小题1:根据文中的信息作出判断推理。根据第一段 … making a relationship weak, moderate, average, or strong可知，答案为B。小题2:根据文中的信息作出判断推理。根据第二段So the first step … It is also very important to understand your own needs … 可推测，处理好人际关系最重要的是要了解双方的需要。小题3:根据文中的信息作出判断推理。根据第三段As a child grows, needs change … 可知A项符合文意；根据第三段As it is with the child to the parents … 可以推测B项符合文意；根据第四段The way to recognize the needs of other people is by their respons to you可推测D项也是正确的。只有C项在文中没有提到，故答案为C。小题4:判断作者的写作目的。这两段的目的是告诉我们怎样发现他人和自己的需要，故答案为D。

考点

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人生感悟类阅读的概念：

生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。

生活感悟类阅读解题指导：

一、文章特点： 生活感悟类的文章就是指能给人心灵以启迪，使人从中受到教育的文章。这类文章的体裁可以是记叙文，如生活中一些感人故事或情感故事，有点类似心灵鸡汤一样的短文。有时故事的结尾会有一句“点睛之笔”，点出全文的中心思想，就像《伊索寓言》里的寓言一样。还可能是夹叙夹议的哲理散文或生活随笔。散文随笔通常会阐述一种朴素易懂，耳熟能详的人生道理或宝贵品质。文章的结构和议论文类似，一般是总分总或总分结构。每段首句或尾句为主题句（论点），其它句子围绕主题展开论述（论据），论证方法多种多样，或举例，或引用名言，或正反对照等。二、解题技巧：针对生活感悟类文章的特点，做这类文章的完形填空时，要特别注意以下几点：1、重点理解全文的首句。如果是记叙文，找出when，where，who，what等基本要素。如果是散文随笔，充分理解文章的中心句—全文的主题。2、阅读全文的结尾段或结尾句，有助于理解文章所阐述或蕴含的哲理、感悟或忠告等。3、调动自己的背景知识和情感。这类文章不会讲大道理也不会涉及到一些很专业的知识技术领域，而是谈一些小事和简单的道理，所以如果读者能和作者产生感情上的共鸣，读者会更好地把握作者的意图态度，从而提高做题的准确度。因此，考生在平时要做一个有心人，即用心去感悟生活中发生的小事，思考人生的一些基本道理，多阅读一些短小精悍的美文，多写写自己的心情故事和对生活学习的感悟。只有平时多用心，做题时才能调动自己的背景知识和情感。