TED演讲素材之------1，为什么我停止观看A片？(英文演讲稿)
讲师：Ran Gavrieli
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I stopped watching porn for two reasons basically. The first one was that porn brought so much anger and violence into my private fantasies. The were anger and violence that were not there originally to begin with, and I did not want it for me anymore. This was not me , and I decided to just put an end to it. Easier said than done--I got it later about. The cond reason was that I came to realize that only by watching porn I take part in creating a demand for filmed prostitution. Becau that’s what porn really is: filmed prostitution.
Porn stands for prostitute; graphic stands for documentation. And prostitution was nobody’s childhood dream; it is always a result of trouble and distress. Now, I became aw
are of that gradually, when I was volunteering with men and women in prostitution, some of them victims of human traffic, rving aid in brothels, under the bridge and street corners. You don’t really need to do all that in order to understand how this mechanism of porn and prostitution works. Becau porn is a genre it’s not about erotica or healthy xual communication. It is all about male domination of women, sub-ordinance of women. Not only the xual practice, but as a way of being, as a gender hierarchy in this world.
If we were to ask porn, how does it define something as xual? What qualifies, what defines something as xual? Porn would laugh in our face. What defines xual? Whatever men find arousing----men find it arousing to choke a woman, to have a brutal x without one touch, hug, kiss, tender caress. Well then it is xual. It arous men to e a woman or child cry, it is xual. It arous men to rape a woman; well, then it is xual.纤的四字词语
In every mainstream porn gallery on the web, we can find the rape category side by side
with the humiliation category, abu category, crime category and so on. This is all as if this regular porn is not already filled with the motives. Even in its mildest version, the mildest version of porn, what porn is showing us like, 80%, maybe 90% of the time is actually x with no hands involved. This is not how we authentically desire. Sorry, I’ll repeat that, i e your look. Sex with no hands involved. Okay?
If you and I are not going to give up watching porn, the next thing you do watch you just notice that porn cameras have no interest in capturing any normal xual activities such as petting, caressing, making out, touching, hugging, kissing. No. What porn cameras are into is the penetration. So normally the composition will be a man and a woman, hopefully just one, okay. So, one man and one woman. His penis is inside her. Don’t be picky. It doesn’t matter where inside. Somewhere inside. His penis is somewhere inside her, okay? And in order not to block the camera for doing this extreme clo up on the penetration, he’s standing with his hands behind his back most of the time. And the woman is in this --uncomfortable position and she need to handle the penis inside her without damaging the hair or makeup or look down on her becau that’s money invested
and time invested in her. Without disturbing his aggressive movement and mainly without blocking the cameras, so the result is that we got two people having x different shapes and acrobatics or something. But they’re having x when the only body parts that actually touch each other are the penis and the part being penetrated. No hands involved.为什么背部酸痛
Now I talked, I don’t know, 250-300 times a year, soldiers, students, pupils. No one had ever come up to me and say, “Ran, you know that part with x with no hands thing that was my authentic desire, like when I was 11 or 12, I never wanted to kiss or touch anybody. I was not curious about that. It was all the penetration to begin with.” No one had ever said that-before porn. After porn. In my private fantasies before watching porn, there was always a very strong narrative and the narrative was of nsuality and mutuality which means that I had always imagined what I would say to her? What would she possibly answer? What options do I have to respond?
In real life it never works like I planned, but it was super important in my mind in term of a
什么时间最容易怀孕rousal, the build-up, the location, the tting, where will it? What are the circumstances of me and her being alone? How will this bodily flaming between us will emerge step by step? It was super important, before porn. After making a habit out of porn, it conquers your mind and it invades your brain. And I lost my ability to imagine. Which means I found mylf and I won’t be too explicit, but trying to masturbate, just closing my eyes , trying to fantasize desperately about something human and not making it becau my head was bombarded with all of tho images of women being violated and subordinated and forced into pretending they enjoyed diabolic sperm rituals, okay? So, this is pretty much the result. And we are all vulnerable to pornography. It’s not just young people and we should be very careful, I think, with not only what we put into our bodies in terms of food and nutrition, but with the nutrition of our mind. Becau everything we watch invades us. I’ll give you a short example from non-xual areas.
风景介绍
环境污染防治I came the other night, I came back home and my beloved one was watching some cultural junk. She was watching a karaoke show audition, the one with chairs spinning. We don’t have a TV t back home, but only becau it allows us to fally prent our
lves as deep and profound people. I’ve never heard of that. Master Tommy who? Angeline? We watch every cultural junk possible, okay? Not me, not her, we don’t contemplate about existence. We download stuff. And we download all cultural junk. So I am watching this 20 minutes karaoke show. It was so boring and tedious. Two minutes talking, for minutes blabbering. I lost patience after 20 minutes and I went off to take a shower and the most interesting part was in the shower. Becau what I found out there was mylf in my most pathetic state ever. I’m going to share it with you. I want to feel that you accept and love me, so l have to share my most pathetic moment and you have to accept it now.
