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Katia: So, Enam, we're talking about arranged marriages, but what about
the rate of divorce ofarranged marriages? Is it high?
卡蒂亚：伊纳姆，我们继续来谈包含婚姻，包办婚姻的离婚率是多少?离婚率高吗?
Enam: Well, actually, the rate is incredibly low. Actually, it's below ten percent and it'schanging but still it's really low and the reason I think becau the culture in Bangladesh ... inthat kind of culture, boys and girls
怎么修改宽带密码are like grown up in different ways, and they don't really eeach other that cloly, and that's why when you are married with a person, you start to knowthat person after different ... opposite gender ... quite well and that helps develop andunderstanding and they both ... both of them try to
understand each other — their values —and in the cultural background it's normally decided that they have to be together normallywithout an exception
for the rest of their lives, so they just try to work in that way. Do youhave
a higher divorce rate in your country?
伊纳姆：实际上，包办婚姻的离婚率低得令人难以置信。离婚率不到10%，虽然现在
木兰从军原文情况有所改变，不过离婚率仍处于低水平，我认为原因是孟加拉国的文化，在孟加拉国，
男孩和女孩的成长方式不同，而且男生和女生之间不会太亲密，所以在结婚后，异性之间
开始互相了解，这有助于关系的发展和互相理解，双方努力去理解对方的价值观，基于这
样的文化背景，双方通常会这样一起度过一生，基本上没有例外，双方会努力这样生活。
你们国家的离婚率高吗?
Katia: Actually, unfortunately it is increasing. I really don't know the percentage but when Iwas young, if somebody of my friends parents would get a divorce that would be very shockingto hear. It was uncommon. But now, a lot of my friends actually are going though divorce ortheir parents have divorced, which it wasn't common but now it ems a little bit morecommon, so unfortunately things are changing in Mexico.
卡蒂亚：不幸的是，我们国家的离婚率在持续上升。我不知道具体的数据，不过我小
时候，如果我有的父母离婚了，那会是一件令人震惊的事。是不同寻常的事。可是现在，
春天的画怎么画我许多朋友都在办离婚，他们的父母也离婚了，以前不同寻常的事情现在变得越来越普遍，不幸的是，墨西哥的情况正在逐渐改变。
Enam: Why do you think that the divorce rate is going up? What could be
the reason behindthis?
伊纳姆：你为什么认为离婚率在上升?离婚率上升的原因是什么?
Katia: I think it's very hard to say but I think they're various reasons. For example, womendidn't ud to work. They ud to stay home and take care of the hou, the husband, thechildren, but now women have become more independent. They have been able to makedifferent decisions that before they didn't have to, so I think the independence of the womenhas changed things and perhaps the culture itlf, the culture of marriage and divorce, it haschanged also so I think possibly tho two reasons.
卡蒂亚：这很难说，我认为原因有很多。举例来说，以前墨西哥的女性不工作。女性一般在家里照顾家、丈夫和孩子，而现在的女性越来越独立。她们可以自行做决定，而以前她们不用做决定，所以我
认为女性的独立使情况发生了变化，可能也使结婚和离婚的文化有所改变，我想这可能是两大主要原因。
Todd: So, Kadi, you are from Estonia. Can you talk about gender roles for the new generationcompared to the older generation?
托德：卡迪，你来自爱沙尼亚。你能说说新一代人的性别角色与老一辈有什么不同吗?
Kadi: Yes, in Estonia, we have this kind of Western type of family, a woman doesn't have to bea houwife. She can work. She can do whatever she likes. Even maybe the tendency right nowis that women are becoming more masculine. Often it happens that women make more moneythan men do and they're the ones who bring the bread in the hou. Yeah, compared toEastern society where usually women are considered as houwives. They just have to clean andcook and rai the kids, and in my country ... no ... there's not such a thing and I think italways has been like that. I'm not quite sure but.
芥末凉粉卡迪：好，爱沙尼亚是西方式家庭，女性不必做家庭主妇。女性可以出去工作，可以做她喜欢的事情。现在的趋势是，有越来越多的女性开始承担男性的角色。有很多女性挣得比男性还多，承担起养家的责任。在东方社会，女性基本上都是家庭主妇。她要打扫屋子、做饭，抚养孩子，可是在我们国
家不是，我想我们国家的情况一直都是这样。不过我不太确定。
Todd: Who does the chores like cooking and cleaning?
托德：那做饭和打扫这样的家务活由谁做?
Kadi: Yeah, I think we all do it. We don't have that kind of rule that women only have to cleanand cook. Of cour in some families, it is like that becau women are better cleaning,especially, rather than men are, but yeah, men are quite good cooks.
卡迪：我们都会做。我们没有规定说女性只能做打扫和做饭的工作。当然在有些家庭，女性的打扫工作比男性做得好，不过男性做饭也做得很好。
Todd: What do people do for childcare? Like who takes care of the children?
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托德：那照顾孩子呢?谁来照顾孩子?
Kadi: Nannies. Yeah. We have nannies for working mothers, they usually
like hire people towatch over the children and just they play with them and
also like kindergarten, like childrenstart going to kindergarten in Estonia when they're really young, maybe from three months Ithink even, yeah, you can go to work when your child is like half-a-year old. Just go to work.Take a
child there, and people are going to care about her.
卡迪：保姆。职场母亲会请保姆，雇佣保姆来照顾孩子，和孩子一起玩，在爱沙尼亚，孩子们很小的时候就会被送去幼儿园，大概三个月左右的孩子就要上幼儿园了，在孩子6
个月大的时候，妈妈们就可以开始上班了。妈妈们去上班，把孩子送去幼儿园，那里有人季布一诺千金的故事
会照顾孩子。
Todd: Is the nanny expected to cook and clean as well?
托德：保姆也要做饭和打扫吗?见鬼的方法
Kadi: It depends of on the contract. It depends on the contract. Yeah, if you hire a personwho that you say you're gonna pay him or her, usually her,
like for cleaning, cooking, takingcare of the children, whatever, it depends
on the contract.
卡迪：这取决于保姆和雇主签的合同。这要看合同。如果雇主想雇佣负责打扫、做饭
和照顾孩子的保姆，要在合同中注明。
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