Unit 8
Two Truths to Live By
Hold fast, and let go: Understand this paradox, and you stand at the very gate of wisdom.
Alexander M. Schindler
(Commencement speech at the University of South Carolina in 1987)
浪琴手表维修1. The art of living is to know when to hold fast and when to let go. For life is a paradox: it enjoins us to cling to its many gifts even while it ordains their eventual relinquishment. The rabbis of old put it this way: “A man comes to this world with his fist clenched, but when he dies, his hand is open.”
2. Surely we ought to hold fast to life, for it is wondrous, and full of a beauty that breaks through every pore of the earth. We know that this is so, but all too often we recognize this t
历年高考题ruth only in our backward glance when we remember what it was and then suddenly realize that it is no more.
3. We remember a beauty that faded, a love that waned. But we remember with far greater pain that we did not e that beauty when it flowered, that we failed to respond with love when it was tendered.
4. A recent experience re-taught me this truth. I was hospitalized following a vere heart attack and was in intensive care for veral days. It was not a pleasant place.
5. One morning, I had to have some additional tests. The required machines were located in a building at the opposite end of the hospital, so I had to be wheeled across the courtyard on a gurney.
臧克家的作品6. As we emerged from our unit, the sunlight hit me. That’s all there was to my experience. Just the light of the sun, and yet how beautiful it was — how warming, how sparkling, how brilliant!丹七软胶囊
爆发力训练孕妇能不能吃木瓜7. I looked to e whether anyone el relished the sun’s golden glow, but everyone was hurrying to and fro, most with eyes fixed on the ground. Then I remembered how often I, too, had been indifferent to the grandeur of each day, too preoccupied with petty and sometimes even mean concerns to respond to the splendor of it all.
8. The insight gleaned from that experience is really as commonplace as was the experience itlf: life’s gifts are precious — but we are too heedless of them.
9. Here then is the first pole of life’s paradoxical demands on us: Never be too busy for the wonder and the awe of life. Be reverent before each dawning day. Embrace each hour. Seize each golden minute.
10. Hold fast to life ... but not so fast that you cannot let go. This is the cond side of life’s coin, the opposite pole of its paradox: we must accept our loss, and learn how to let go.
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11. This is not an easy lesson to learn, especially when we are young and think that the
world is ours to command, that whatever we desire with the full force of our passionate being can, nay, will, be ours. But then life moves along to confront us with realities, and slowly but surely this cond truth dawns upon us.
12. At every stage of life we sustain loss — and grow in the process. We begin our independent lives only when we emerge from the womb and lo its protective shelter. We enter a progression of schools, then we leave our mothers and fathers and our childhood homes. We get married and have children and then have to let them go. We confront the death of our parents and our spous. We face the gradual or not so gradual waning of our own strength. And ultimately, as the parable of the open and clod hand suggests, we must confront the inevitability of our own demi, losing ourlves, as it were, all that we were or dreamed to be.
13. But why should we be reconciled to life’s contradictory demands? Why fashion things of beauty when beauty is evanescent? Why give our heart in love when tho we love will ultimately be torn from our grasp?
14. In order to resolve this paradox, we must ek a wider perspective, viewing our lives as through windows that open on eternity. Once we do that, we realize that though our lives are finite, our deeds on earth weave a timeless pattern.
15. Life is never just being. It is a becoming, a relentless flowing on. Our parents live on through us, and we will live on through our children. The institutions we build endure, and we will endure through them. The beauty we fashion cannot be dimmed by death. Our flesh may perish, our hands will wither, but that which they create in beauty and goodness and truth lives on for all time to come.
16. Don’t spend and waste your lives accumulating objects that will only turn to dust and ashes. Pursue not so much the material as the ideal, for ideals alone invest life with meaning and are of enduring worth.
