人性的弱点英文读后感
篇一：A repot of how to win friends1《人性的弱点》英文读书
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A repot of how to win friends & influence people
By Dale Carnegie
How can we make people like us? Sometimes, you may feel upt when others ignored you. Does he hate me? Why? A rariety of questions may under in your mind. After reading the book, I leave learned six ways to make people like you. Whether it is helpful to foster a good relationship between you and other people, I'm also eager to share with you.
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First, do this and you'll be welcome anywhere. Do you know which world is the most frequently ud? You could guess it, it is the personal pronoun "I". When we talk to a person, we had better take others' feeling into consideration. A successful man are not bou
nd to think himlf all the time. For example, Mr. Thurston, who was the acknowledged dean of magicians. His cecrests of his success was two things. On the other hand, he had the ability to put his personality across the footlights. On the other hand, Thurston had a genuine interest in people. Many magicians look at the audience and say to themlves, "well, there is a bunch of suckers out there, a bunch of hicks; I'll fool them all right." But Thurston's method was totally different. Before he stepping in front of the footlights without first saying to himlf over and over,"I love my audience. I love my audience."If we want to make friends, let's put ourlves out to do things for other people; let's great people with animation and enthusiasm.
Second, make a good first impression. The expression on wears on one's face is far more important than the clothes on wears on one's back. Your smiles brightens the lives of all who e it. As the story tells us, to someone who has en a dozen people from, scowl or turn their faces away, your smile is like the sun breaking through the clouds. Therefore, when our friends, parents or relatives are under pressure from a variety of troubles, we should give them our smiles which can help them realize that all is not hopel
ess---that there is joy in the world.
Third, we should be aware of the magic contained in a name and realize that this single item is wholly and completely owned by the people with whom we are dealing. The names of ourlves are the symbols of our identities. We are all unique. Sometimes it is difficult for us to keep others' names in mind becau we cho to ignore him or his pronounce is hard. On my opinion, if a person who has not got very acquainted with me calls me, I may feel better becau I know it is a respect.
Four, be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themlves. In our daily life, have you found that you want to be a center in a crowd? Do you feel happy when the audience are listening to you? Of cour, everyone hopes that there are friends or parents willing to listen to their words, especially in a sad or gloomy situation. Therefore, learning to be good listener is an important ability to help others and make become your friends.
文字故事Five, talk in terms of the other person's interest. What reward you can receive is not only
婴儿缺锌怎么补a different reward from each person but that in general the reward had been an enlargement of his life each time he spoke to others. For example, whenever Roovelt expected a visitor, he sat up late the night before, reading up on the subject in which he knew his guest was particularly interested. Thus, we should prepare everything if we want to be successful.
Six, make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely. As the story said: There is one all important law of human conduct. If we obey that law, we shall almost never get into trouble. In fact, that law, if obeyed, will bring us countless friends and constant happiness. But the very instant we break the law, we shall get into endless trouble. The law is this: Always make the other person feel important.防己科
I believe that if you follow the principles, the possibilities to win friends are bound to be greater.
篇二：A repot of how to win friends2《人性的弱点》英文读书报告
煲仔饭做法A repot of how to win friends & influence
people
By Dale Carnegie樱桃辣椒
海带炖猪蹄As the Leo Tolstoy said: All happy families are happy alive, all unhappy families are unhappy in their own way. How could you do if your parents are going to divorce? Part Six of this book gives us six rules as following. First, don't, don't nag. Something unhappy happened becau of some details. Usually, a wife of an unhappy life was always complaining, always criticizing her husband, nothing about him was ever right. In his way, certainly, the husband regarded his unfortune marriage, and avoid her prence as much as possible. For example, Leo Tolstoy's life was a tragedy, and the cau of his tragedy was his marriage. His wife loved luxury, but he despid it. So he said the famous ntence which I have quoted in the first paragraph. In my opinion, a couple are gloriously happy when they were first married, but after a few years or veral decades, one of them could hardly bear the sight of the other. My parents are the typical one. There are continous quarreling on thry begin to speak to each other. I feel upt and tired.
Second, don't try to make your partner over. As Leland Foster Wood in his book, Growing Together in the Family, has obrved:" Success in
marriage is much more than a matter of finding the right person; it is also a matter of being the right person." I can not agree it any more. In a marriage, you should try to your soulmate be himlf and give them more freedom to him. Furthermore, when he was in low mood, you also need to be his spirital support.
Third, don't criticize. As an integrity, every member of the family are willing to take care of the others. For instance, no matter how delicious and awful the meal is, you should not criticize directly.
Fourth, give honest appreciation. Most men when eking wives are not not looking for executives but for someone with allure and willingness to flatter their vanity and make them feel superior. Hence, the woman office manager may be invited to luncheon, once. Men should express their appreciation of a woman's effort to look well and dress becomingly. Becau almost every woman are interested in clothes. Besides, after your
wife finishing cooking, plea let her know that you appreciate the fact that you are grateful and happy. Exactly, if a woman is to find happiness at all in her husband. She is to find it in his appreciation, and devotion. If that appreciation and devotion is actual, there is the answer to his happiness also.
