Internet Makes People More Estranged
Honorable judges,distinguished guests,ladies and gentlemen,and my fellow debaters :
Just now the propor told us,Internet is convenient to contact others,and promotes global communications,so it makes people clor.However,if a man just puts his maj or energy,even all spare time in Internet,how can he wholeheartedly communicate wit h his friends in reality?
Actually,when we are talking about being clo to somebody,it does mean an emoti onally intimate relationship,which is a psychological problem.No matter how fast or c onvenient people can keep in touch with distant friends or family members,they are ju st easier to get information of other people,but the true standard to judge whether pe ople get clor or more estranged is to say,whether they can trust each other better t han before.
So,does Internet help people trust each other better? Our group's answer is NO. Internet has two main characteristics.For one part,Internet is a virtual world.On the I nternet,no one knows you are a dog.Through a cold computer screen,how can we ex change ideas with others sincerely?We have to know,communication between huma n beings is bad on spoken language,eye contacts,or soul exchange.No matter how wonderful Internet is,it can not replace the real world.Imagine one day when
people meet each other and just say,"Did you surf the Internet today",踢毽子
do you think people ar e getting clor or more estranged?Internet,as a virtual world,cannot promote a heart -to-heart communication,and,as such,does harm to the trust between people.
For another part,Internet is only a media of communication.What does really make people clor?It is the affection between friends,or the concern about family member s,rather than a media,Internet.If I rent someone and Internet helps me to contact hi m easily,I don't think our relationship will be clor.Furthermore,what kind of the medi as Internet is?Just as "every advantage has its disadvantages",when we enjoy the co nvenience Internet has provided us,we have to know,long time of accumulation of rel ying on this method to contact others,makes people ignore the importance of sincere communication.We are losing the precious trust between people day by day.It is the I nternet that makes people more estranged.
We the people create the Internet,and Internet changes the people as well.The enor mous influences Internet has brought us,totally change our ways of life and communi cations.As for the current events,the opening of the Internet give adequate freedom f or people to say whatever they like,so it comes all sorts of 唯美意境图片
network crimes,such as ch eating othe印度有多少人口
rs for money,publishing fal advertiments.The whole environment of th e Internet is full of danger,we have to take precautions
against tho cheaters when surfing the Internet.How can we trust others in such a dangerous condition?If the trus t between people can not be promoted by the Internet,my fellow debaters,How can y ou say Internet makes people clor?
Internet is the product of the development of the time's,and all of us are so lucky to l ive in a informational society,using the Internet to contact others fast and easily.But o ur group has to remind you,my dear friends,the meeting of minds,the communication
between hearts and hearts,will never be completed just by a media of communication ,the Internet.
So we have to state our opinion for another time,Internet does make people more e stranged.
communicating over long distances(1min 5s)
However,theories about human rel火车票预售期
ations told us,communications among people can be divided into two groups:informational and emotional.We can exchange different in formation in the Internet,but as to being clor or more estranged,it is the exchanges of thoughts and feelings,or we can call that,emotional communication.Internet reduce the time and space distance,but it isn't equal to shorten psychological distance betw een people.右旋糖酐铁
Internet can't shoulder the responsibility of emotion
al communications. For example,a couple get along well with each other.One day the husband was awa y for official business,so they can only communicate in the Internet.Two weeks later t he husband came back home.In which situation are the couple more clor,in reality or Internet?An email,compared to a written letter,which one does make people clor No matter how convenient the Internet is,compared to the reality,it can only make p eople more estranged.
global communication,meeting new friends(45s)
However,in ord红腹食人鲳
er to be clor,there is a precondition,or basic factor,that we have to loyally and trustfully communicate face to face.As we have mentioned above,the trust among people is the single standard to judge whether people are getting clor.So h
ow can we build trust relationships?Eye contacts,body language,or written letters.But all the methods cannot be found in the Internet communications.
As to meet new friends from the Internet,in America three-quarters of people don't k now their neighbours.Modern people are addicted to the virtual world and ignore the i mportance of their real lives.People can't even be clor with tho living nearest to t hem,so how can they build trust relation with stranger in the Internet?
The strong function of the Internet can also promote emotional relationship(1 min) I have to say,interactions over the Internet are not very deep.On the contrary,the com munication in the Internet,such as QQ,MSN,are relatively shallow,lacking in the depth ,and too limited in the contents.Besides,Internet is just a media for communication. T he really things that make people clor is affection between friends.People cannot g et online all day long,and they have to go back to real life.Using the tools makes us c onvenient and easy to contact外星人的故事
others,but relying the Internet will estrange the people.
For example,I study abroad and chat with my parents on QQ,but compared to a war m embrace,or helping my parents do houwork,which method,direct or indirect,do y ou think is clor?Besides the Internet,we can nd a written letter,give a prent or keep our parents company.Virtual and indirect network will only make people more e stranged.
Free dismination of information,some (52s)
But what about the esnce of network?In the virtual world,people can talk whatever they like,either lies or boasting,without limits on everyone.You may say,we have gove
rnment ministry and the whole public to supervi the network,but no one can deny t he esnce of I
nternet.In a virtual and open world,information are too diverd and o verloaded for people to distinguish between truth and fal.When we are cheated by strange men from the Internet,how could you say we are clor than before? Besides,many crimes have occurred through the Internet.Everyday we can e such kind of news,a girl met with her Internet friend and我的姥姥
at last she was killed.Can you say it clos the relationship?The crimes belong to the minority indeed,but the influence i s great.Internet leads to the loss of trust day by day,how could the loss of trust clo our distance?
Conditions when people cannot meet each other(47s)
Attention plea,here we are talking about being clor or more estranged.It needs c ompare.Internet as a convenient media,when compared to the reality,makes people more estranged.During the period of SARS,people can only contact each other or the Internet.However,when compared to a sincere embrace or shaking hands with tho patients,do you still think Internet makes people clor?We agree that in a special sit uation Internet is necessary,but it cannot replace the real world.No matter how wond erful people chat with each other on the Internet,they have to go back to reality,soone r or later.Becau compared to reality,Internet does make people more estranged. SNS(27s)
SNS,which is also called social networking rvices,provide a virtual sociality platfor m for netizens.Here I have to state our standard for another time:The trust between h uman bejings and the needs for human relations reality.When people enjoy the virtua
