1. Some people are strongly against campus love.
2. Some people accept it.万开头的成语
3. My view.
1。一些人强烈反对校园爱情。
2。有些人接受。
3。我的观点。
Campus love isn‘t a newly-born phenomenon. Some people are strongly against it while some others think it‘s natural. I don‘t advocate it. The reasons are as follows. First of all, undergraduates are neither fully psychologically mature nor able to assume the responsibility, especially freshmen and sophomores.
Second, they may indulge in it, thus dilapidate their study, which isn‘t rare. Third, some just take advantage of it to kill time, avoid boredom with much time at their own disposals, have someone keep company, etc. What‘s more, some change dating "partners" frequently, holding a paradox opinion that t
hey could show off their charm or accumulate experience, but more often than not, they would leave a bad impression, such as lacking the n of responsibility, on others, especially their former sweethearts. Last, the proportion of successful couples is too low. The overwhelming majority reach the same end-parting just before graduation, forced by reality, etc.
So, look before you leap, discard campus love and make a wir decision after graduation.
校园爱情不是一个落地的现象。一些人强烈反对而另一些人却认为这是自然的。我不提倡。原因如下。首先,大学生也不完全心理成熟也能够承担责任,尤其是一年级学生,二年级学生。
宽容的小故事其次,他们可能会沉迷于他们的研究,从而dilapidate,但这并不罕见。第三,有的只是利用它来消磨时间,避免了无聊与我们太多时间在自己的手法,有人养公司等。更重要的是,一些零钱约会"伙伴”,手里拿着一个悖论,经常认为他们可以炫耀自己的吸引力或积累经验,但往往不是他们会留下一个坏的印象,如缺乏责任感,对他人,尤其是他们以前的情侣。最后,成功的伴侣的比例太低。绝大多数达到同样的end-parting刚毕业前,迫于现实,等。
所以,三思而后行,抛弃校园爱情,毕业后一个聪明的决定。
My View on College Students' Dating
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It is quite a common thing that college students have a date on campus.From the moment they enter college,they begin to date.Some of them even live together far away from school.They live as if they were a new couple.The reasons are as follows.First,they think they have grown up and have been mature enough to handle the love problems.What's more,they believe that dating can do them good.They need each other both in life and in body.As more and more students do so,it ems that dating has been accepted by society.Many people,some experts and educators included hold a possitive atittude to it.
Hower,college students' dating can lead to some problems,one of which is that they have to spend more money.The boys would buy some famous gifts for their girlfriends in order to mak
e them happy,which would be costly.It's reported that a boy who is love spends about one thousand yuan a month,while a boy who doesn't date only half of it.
Everything has its two sides,and dating is without exception.In my humple opin
我的观点对大学生约会
这是一个相当普遍的大学生在校园里有个约会。从那一刻开始,他们进了大学,他们开始日期。他们
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中的一些人甚至一起生活离学校很远。他们活着的时候好像是一个新人。原因如下。首先,他们认为他们已经长大了,已经成熟,足以应付爱的问题。更重要的是,他们相信约会可以做他们好。他们需要彼此无论是生活和身体。随着越来越多的学生这样做,似乎已经被社会接受的约会。许多人,包括一些专家、教育者atittude举行一个肯定。
但是,大学生的约会可能会导致一些问题,其中一个是他们要花更多的钱。男孩子们会买一些著名的礼物给他们的女友为了让他们高兴,这将是昂贵的。据报道,一个男孩是爱花费约一千元一个月,当一个男孩不只有一半的日期。
每件事都有两面,约会是毫无例外。在我看来,高校学生humple日期,只要他们明白约会意味着责任以及幸福。
爱情是一种情感,是自己身上的一部分。爱情更多的是付出和责任。
Love is a kind of emotion, is a part of yourlf. Love is more the pay and responsibility.
他们认为大学谈恋爱不好的原因是因为他们觉得许多大学生无法正确处理恋爱带来的各种问题,
They think the university to fall in love the cau of bad becau they feel many college students can't correctly processing in love with all kinds of problems,
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爱并不是一种收获,更多的是付出,是责任。
Love is not a harvest, more is paid, is the responsibility.
恋爱可以让人心情好,更有动力去完成一些事情 ,包括学习 。
Love can make people feel good, the more motivated to complete some things, including learning.
每个人的观点不同,许多人会认为大学恋爱可以增加一种成长的经历,可以提升我们处理生活问题的能力和心理素质,也有很多人会认为,大学恋爱是浪费自己的光阴,的确大学恋爱成功的几率很小,而且我们要对自己的未来负责,我们也没有经济能力来进行这样的高消费,要以优异的学习成绩毕业,所以这个问题是大学生成长的枷锁,很难客观的评论。
Each person's point of view is different, many people will think that university in love can increa a growth experience, can improve our ability to deal with life and psychological quality, also have a lot of people think that love is the university of waste their time, indeed university in love the probability of success is very small, and we want to own the future is responsible for, and we have no economic ability to such high cost, to be in ex
cellent learning graduated, the question is the chains of college students' development, and it is diffic
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ult to objective comments.
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大学生谈恋爱,生活上可以相互关心,相互爱护;精神上相互促进,相互安慰,解除思乡之情;学业上相互勉励,共同提高,促进双方上进心的增强。
College students fall in love, life can care about each other, love each other; Spiritual comfort each other, promote each other, remove nostalgia's; The school encouraged each other, improve together, promoting the morale of the increa.
持不利观点的人则认为大学生在校期间恋爱,一则过早地进入两人世界,精力过于分散,不利于上进心的培养,会严重影响双方的学业;二则大学生在恋爱过程中矛盾多,挫折大,往往很难把握准确适度。大学生虽然生理上已经成熟,但在心理发展上存在着不均衡性,情绪波动较大,易感情用事,而一旦失恋,如果得不到合理的情绪疏导,后果不堪设想;三则正在恋爱中的大学生,人际交往的指向性很强,往往与原来的伙伴疏远,甚至脱离集体,造成同学间的隔阂而影响团结,对集体的责任感也被男女之情所代替,既不利于个人角色的塑造和成长,也不利于集体的发展;
The adver view of the people argue that a college students in love, an early access to two people world energy are too scattered, go against, the cultivation of the desire to do better, can riously affect both studies; College students in the process of first love, big tback contradiction, it is difficul
t to grasp the accurate moderate. College students' although physical have mature, but in psychological development are not balanced, mood swings larger, easy emotional, and once brokenhearted, if not reasonable mood dredge, conquence is unimaginable; Three are in the love college students, interpersonal of direction is very strong, often with the original partners, even from the collective, alienated by the gap between students and the influence of the collective n of responsibility and unity, and is also the feeling of the men and women of unfavourable to the individual character, shaping and growth, but also to the development of the collective;
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