Three Lessons About Money - Dorothée Loorbach
Lesson number one: money is important.
第一课:钱很重要。
吉海反应Quite a cliche. but I was raid in a way to believe that money is not important. And I inherited this conviction somehow I can't blame anyone in particular, but somehow
there it planted a conviction in my head that people with money are not nice people.
陈词滥调。但我从小就相信钱并不重要。我继承了这个信念,我不
能特别责怪任何人,但不知何故,它在我的脑海中植入了一个信念,有钱的人不是好人。
So when I had money, I would spend it as soon as I could, and then when I found my purpo working with students, I just didn't ask for it, I didn't care. I just wanted to change the world, which I had no impact on whatsoever with three years and 97 cents. And I also learned that money doesn't make you a bad person, it just makes you more of
who you are, so if you're a jerk with a lot of money,童年的歌谣
you're probably a jerk when you're broke as well. And if I would have more money I would simply give more, but if I have to worry about money every day, all day I can't even take care of mylf and I have nothing to give.
所以当我有钱的时候,我会尽快把钱花完,当我发现我的目标是和
学生们一起工作的时候,我只是不要求,我不在乎。我只是想改变
这个世界,我用了三年97美分却没有对这个世界产生任何影响。我
也明白了金钱并不会让你变成一个坏人,它只会让你更像你自己,
闭嘴爱吧所以如果你是一个有很多钱的混蛋,那么当你身无分文的时候,你
也可能是一个混蛋。如果我想要更多的钱,我就会付出更多,但是
如果我每天都要为钱发愁,我甚至不能照顾好自己,我没有什么可手相断掌
以付出的。
Lesson number two: money equals time.
山东省职业技能鉴定中心第二课:金钱等于时间。
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人间失格经典语录As soon as we start working, we start exchanging time for money, which is a problem becau we can always make more money but we can never make more time, and I started to exchange my time for far too little money, I could barely survive, and at the end of the month there was nothing ever left to invest in my future.
一旦我们开始工作,我们就开始用时间来换钱,这是一个问题,因为我们总是可以赚更多的钱,但我们永远不能赚更多的时间,我开始用我的时间换太少的钱,我几乎不能生存,在到了月底,我再也没有什么可以投资我的未来了。
So I would have to spend all my time. to make just a little bit of money and I would probably have to do that for the rest of my life becau there was nothing left, and for the rest of my life I would have given away the one thing that means the very most to me, which is time. Time with my loved ones and time for mylf.
所以我将不得不花费我所有的时间。赚一点点钱,我可能会做,其余的我的生活,因为没有离开,在我的余生我将放弃一件事意味着最对我来说,这是时间。和我所爱的人在一起,也给自己一些时间。
So I decided that it was time that I value my time, I would spend it more consciously, and when it comes to work, I would have to exchange it for more money, so I could spend less time working, and more time actually living.
所以我决定是时间让我珍惜我的时间,我要更有意识地使用它,当涉及到工作时,我要用它来换更多的钱,这样我就可以花更少的时间工作,更多的时间真正地生活。
Lesson number three: money equals value.
第三课:钱等于价值。
It took me two years to discover that the money project is not about money it's about value, and I've always en mylf as a confident person, but I didn't value mylf, becau the way you treat yourlf is a reflection of the way you e yourlf, and I've been treating mylf like crap, which I found a terrible example to t for my daughter.
我花了两年才发现项目不是关于钱的价值,我一直认为自己是一个自信的人,但我自己没有价值,因为你对待自己的方式反映了你看待自己的方式,我一直把自己当成废话,我发现了一个可怕的例子设置为我的女儿。
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So changing my rates was not enough I had to change the way I e mylf, I had to start eing mylf as a person of value, and that was not easily done, it's a process, and
I'm still working on it so I still on a regular basis I
still have to remind mylf it's okay, you're worth every penny. And even now I find it hard to say this out loud I get a bit embarrasd so I'm still learning I have to keep practicing.
所以仅仅改变我的速度是不够的我必须改变我看待自己的方式,我必须开始把自己看成一个有价值的人,这并不容易做到,这是一个过程,我仍然在努力,所以我仍然有规律地提醒自己没关系,你值得拥有每一分钱。即使现在我发现很难大声说出来,我还是有点不好意思,所以我还在学习,我必须继续练习。