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A Comparative Study on Family Education in America and China
Abstract: In a lifetime , family is the first school , in which parents are the first teachers for the
《朱子家训》原文children . Children are the hopes of a nation , and family education is the elementary education for children . There are many types of family education in the world and each of them shows distinctive features and is cloly responsive to its culture . And American family education is the most famous one among them1 . There are great differences in the concepts of education , aim of education , methods of education and contents of education between American family education and Chine family education . This thesis will complete the comparative study from the differences , the reasons and the results of family education between America and China . The author hopes to find a satisfied family education method through comparing the differences between American family education and Chine family education . At the same time , the author hopes this thesis can provide some helpful suggestions for family education in order to make children grow more healthily and roundly .
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Keywords: family education Main Body:
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differences结束的英文短语
education for all-around development
Ⅰ.The differences of family education between America and China:
1. The concepts of family education are different .一键还原精灵官网
The different education concepts between America and China lead children to receive different education . In China , many parents only care about whether the children have a promising future , a good job , a good life or not . Bad on the expectations , the majority of parents feel that their responsibility for their children is to create as good condi
tions as possible they can so that the children will not worry about anything in the future2 . Chine parents would like to provide everything what they can for their children in the process of children's growth . In short , they would like to sacrifice anything if their children can live better with their help . Therefore, in the process of children's growth, the most important thing the parents concerning is to develop their children's intellect , except for caring children's daily life . In order to make their children have a good performance in study , become outstanding , or even become a famous person in the future ,
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they would not let children do anything except studying . Contrastively , American parents generally believe that the growth of children must rely on their own strength and experiences. Bad on this concept , most American parents emphasize more to train their children's ability of independence once they are born becau they think that children should form a lf-supporting will and the capacity to live independently since their childhood . And the capacity comes from the training in the early age3 . In the film 《Gua Sha Treatment》4 , there is a scene that Datong ordered his son to apologize to h
is boss's son when his saw his son was fighting with his boss's son . What's more , he slapped his son in the face when his son refud to apologize , which gave his boss aquit a shock . His boss became confud why the father would show the regret by striking his son . This scene and the boss's confusion reflect the different concepts between the two countries . Traditonal Chine family education emphasize kindheartedness and bedience5 , so we can say that Chine parents like Datong in the film always want to model their children . On the contrary , America children have more rights of autonomy becau their parents emphasis on justice and freedom in the process of family education .
2. The aim of family education are different6 .
The aim of family education is to foster the children to grow in some direction by family education . It is the restrictive factor for the direction of family education , deciding the general effect of it . So the aim of family education is the core of family education and the fundamental reason for the differences between the two countries on family education . T
here is an esntial difference between two countrys' aim of family education , with to expect the child to become an outstanding personage and to hope the child to be an comprehensive and independent person giving expressions to the difference . To most Chine parents , the aim is expecting their child to be a " dragon " , which is " wang zi cheng long " in Chine . But American parents take hoping the child to be a man of ability which is " wang zi cheng ron " in Chine as their aim . For Chine parents, their aim is to do anything to support their children to get high marks . What forms apparent contrast to it is , America parents give their children more training about improving abilities . They try to train their children to have the ability of adapting to environmental variety and the ability of living independently .
3. The methods are different between America and China .2012是闰年吗
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The differences of concepts and aim cau the childen to be taught by different ways and methods . In Chine family , affected by Chine traditional culture , parents educate chi
ldren by " control " and " al " type . There are three tips for it 7: (1) Chine parents prepare all things for their children in daily life . In Chine family , children don't have to do any houwork . (2) Chine parents protect the children to excess in social activities . Many children are prevented from exposure to the outer world becau their parents worry about children's being affected by bad things 8. (3) Chine parents have a rather strict attitude toward children's study . Parents regard the grades as the only standard for future success . " Tasks Sea " strategy is often ud in study . Chine children are tired of doing many extra exercis . So Chine children spend more time in studying than doing other things . What about America children Let's talk about the famous film 《The Pacifier》9. In the film , it may be unconscious , but Shane Wolfe had let the kids master many skills by training them during the time when he cared them . So American parents bring up their children by the method of " letting go " but " not indulging " to exerci children's abilities of independent living .
4. The different contents of family education between America and China .
The differences of family education between the two countries are also reflected in the contents of family education . Although the contents of Chine family education can also divided into moral education , intellectual education , physical education and artistic education , but intellectual education has been the most important one since they go to school . However , the contents of American family education is abundant , which pay more attention to the harmonious development of language , emotion , knowledge and so on . It is so-called " education for all-around development
