【中英文互译】演讲稿：
知识竞赛主持词0:11 When I was six years old, I received my gifts. My first grade teacher had this brilliant idea. She wanted us to experience receiving gifts but also learning the virtue of complimenting each other. So she had all of us come to the front of the classroom, and she bought all of us gifts and stacked them in the corner.And she said, "Why don't we just stand here and compliment each other? If you hear your name called,go and pick up your gift and sit down." What a wonderful idea, right? What could go wrong?
当我6岁的时候，我收到了份礼物。我一年级的老师有一个很棒的主意。她想让我们在接受礼物的同时还能学习如何表扬他人。所以她让我们走到教室前面，她给我们每个人带了礼物，堆在墙角。然后她说：“让我们在这里互相表扬吧。如果你听到有谁表扬
你，就去拿一份礼物然后回座位。”多棒的主意，对吗？能出什么差错呢？
0:45 (Laughter)
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端午情0:47 Well, there were 40 of us to start with, and every time I heard someone's name called, I would give out the heartiest cheer. And then there were 20 people left, and 10 people left, and five left ... and t
hree left.And I was one of them. And the compliments stopped. Well, at that moment, I was crying. And the teacher was freaking out. She was like, "Hey, would anyone say anything nice about the people?"
我们一共有40个孩子，每一次别人被叫到名字，我都会很高兴的叫好。然后剩下20个人，然后10个人， 5个人……最后剩下了3个人。而我是其中一个。再也没有表扬了。就在那时，我开始哭。老师也不知所措。她说：“嘿，有没有人愿意表扬一下这些同学？”
1:15 (Laughter)
1:16 "No one? OK, why don't you go get your gift and sit down. So behave next year -
梦见开车撞人了- someone might say something nice about you."
“没有吗？好吧。那你们去拿一份礼物然后回座位吧。明年要好好表现哦，说不定会有人表扬你。”
1:22 (Laughter)
1:25 Well, as I'm describing this you, you probably know I remember this really well.
你看我记得如此清楚，因为这是我心里永远的痛。
感冒吃什么菜1:29 (Laughter)
1:31 But I don't know who felt wor that day. Was it me or the teacher? She must have realized that she turned a team-building event into a public roast for three six-year-olds. And without the humor. You know, when you e people get roasted on TV, it was funny. There was nothing funny about that day.
但我不知道当天谁的感觉更糟糕，我还是我的老师？她一定意识到自己把一个团队建设活动变成了3个6岁孩子的尴尬时刻。而且这种尴尬一点都不好笑。电视上演的那些尴尬时刻，非常好笑。但那天一点都不好笑。
1:50 So that was one version of me, and I would die to avoid being in that situation again -- to get rejected in public again. That's one version. Then fast-forward eight years. Bill Gates came to my hometown --Beijing, China -- to speak, and I saw his message. I fell in love with that guy. I thought, wow, I know what I want to do now. That night I wrote a letter to my family telling them: "By age 25, I will build the biggest company in the world, and that company will buy Microsoft."
所以那是一个版本的我，我死也不要再次经历这种事情——在众目睽睽下被拒绝。这是一个版本。时间快进8年。比尔·盖茨来到我的家乡——中国北京——做演讲。我看了他的演讲，就被他深深迷住了。
我想，哇，我找到了人生目标。当天晚上我给家人写了一封信，信上说，“在25岁之前，我要打造一个世界上最大的公司，而这家公司会买下微软。”
2:23 (Laughter)
2:25 I totally embraced this idea of conquering the world -- domination, right? And I didn't make this up, I did write that letter. And here it is –
我向他真心学到了征服世界的想法，统治世界，对吧。我没骗你们，我真的写了信。就是这封——
2:34 (Laughter)
2:36 You don't have to read this through –
你没必要看懂中文，
2:38 (Laughter)
2:40 This is also bad handwriting, but I did highlight some key words. You get the idea.
字也写得不好看，但我划出了一些重点词。你们就明白了。
2:45 (Laughter)
2:47 So ... that was another version of me: one who will conquer the world.
所以……这是另一个版本的我，一个想要征服世界的我。
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2:54 Well, then two years later, I was prented with the opportunity to come to the United States. I jumped on it, becau that was where Bill Gates lived, right?
时间又过了两年，我得到了一个来美国的机会，我抓住了它，因为这可是比尔·盖茨的故乡啊，对吧？
3:04 (Laughter)
3:05 I thought that was the start of my entrepreneur journey. Then, fast-forward another 14 years. I was 30.Nope, I didn't build that company. I didn't even start. I was actually a marketing manager for a Fortune 500 company. And I felt I was stuck; I was
stagnant. Why is that? Where is that 14-year-old who wrote that letter? It's not becau he didn't try. It's becau every time I had a new idea, every time I wanted to try something new, even at work -- I wanted to make a proposal, I wanted to speak up in front of people in a group -- I felt there was this
constant battle between the 14-year-old and the six-year-old.One wanted to conquer the world -- make a difference -- another was afraid of rejection. And every time that six-year-old won.
当时我觉得这会是我创业生涯的开始。然后，再快进14年，我三十岁了。我并没有成立那家公司。甚至没有开始。而是成为了一家500强企业里一个平凡的市场经理。我感觉我卡住了，停滞不前。为什么呢？那个写信的14岁孩子去哪了？不是因为他没有尝试。而是因为每次我有了新的主意，每次我想尝试一些新的东西，甚至在工作的时候——我想提出一个方案，我想在一群人面前讲话——我感觉6岁的我和14岁的我之间一直在斗争。一个想征服世界，改变现况，另一个却害怕被拒绝。然而每次那个6岁的我都赢了。
3:56 And this fear even persisted after I started my own company. I mean, I started my own company when I was 30 -- if you want to be Bill Gates, you've got to start sooner or later, right? When I was an entrepreneur, I was prented with an investment opportunity, and then I was turned down. And that rejection hurt me. It hurt me so bad that I wanted to quit right there. But then I thought, hey, would Bill Gates quit after a simple investment rejection? Would any successful entrepreneur quit like that? No way. And this is where it clicked for me. OK, I can build a better company. I can build a better team or better product, but one thing for sure: I've got to be a better leader. I've got to be a better person. I cannot let that six-year-old keep dictating my life anymore. I h
ave to put him back in his place.
这个惧怕甚至持续到我开了自己的公司。我在30岁的时候成立了我的公司，如果你想成为比尔·盖茨，迟早要踏出第一步，对吗？当我开始创业后不久，遇见了一个被投资的机会，但是我最终被拒绝了，那次拒绝伤害了我。严重到我想当场放弃。但是我
想，嘿，比尔·盖茨会在一次投资被拒后就放弃吗？任何成功的创业人会像那样放弃吗？当然不。我突然间恍然大悟。我能创立一个更好的公司。我能建立更好的团队，
开发更好的产品，但有一件事是必须的：我要成为一个更好的领导者，成为一个更好的人。我不能让那个6岁的我继续支配我的生活。我要战胜他。
4:50 So this is where I went online and looked for help. Google was my friend.
所以我上网寻求帮助。谷歌是我的朋友。
4:53 (Laughter)
4:54 I arched, "How do I overcome the fear of rejection?" I came up with a bunch of psychology articlesabout where the fear and pain are coming from. Then I came up with a bunch of "rah-rah" inspirational articles about "Don't take it personally, just overcome it." Who doesn't know that?
我搜索：“怎么克服被拒绝的恐惧？”跳出了很多心理学文章，关于恐惧和痛苦的来源。然后是一些励志的文章关于“不要太在意，克服就好。”废话，地球人都知道好吗。
5:11 (Laughter)
5:13 But why was I still so scared? Then I found this website by luck. It's
梦见钓了好多鱼是什么意思
但为什么我还是很害怕？然后我意外找到了这个网站，叫做(被拒治疗法)
5:20 (Laughter)
5:22 "Rejection Therapy" was this game invented by this Canadian entrepreneur. His name is Jason Comely.And basically the idea is for 30 days you go out and look for rejection, and every day get rejected at something, and then by the end, you densitize yourlf from the pain. And I loved that idea.
“被拒治疗法”是加拿大一个创业者发明的游戏，他叫杰森·康利。游戏很简单，你出门找拒绝，持续30天，每天都主动找人因某些事拒绝你，最后，你对被拒绝就会感到麻木了。我太爱这个主意了。
5:41 (Laughter)
5:43 I said, "You know what? I'm going to do this. And I'll feel mylf getting rejected 100 days." And I came up with my own rejection ideas, and I made a video blog out of it.
我说：“好吧。我就这么干。我要让自己被拒绝100天而且把情景录制下来。”我要自己想象出被拒绝的注意，还为此创建了视频博客。
5:54 And so here's what I did. This is what the blog looked like. Day One ..
这就是我做的。这就是那个博客。第一天……
6:01 (Laughter)
6:02 Borrow 100 dollars from a stranger. So this is where I went to where I was working. I came downstairsand I saw this big guy sitting behind a desk. He looked like a curity guard. So I just approached him.And I was just walking and that was the longest walk of my life -- hair on the back of my neck standing up, I was sweating and my heart was pounding. And I got there and said, "Hey, sir, can I borrow 100 dollars from you?"
向一个陌生人借100美金。所以我来到公司，我走下楼，看见桌子后面坐着一个壮
鹿肉的营养价值汉。可能是保安吧。所以我接近他，我走向他，简直是我人生中最漫长一段路，我觉得脖子后面的汗毛都竖起来了，手心都是汗，心怦怦直跳。我走到他面前，说：“先生你好，我能向你借100美金吗？”
6:29 (Laughter)
6:30 And he looked up, he's like, "No." "Why?"
他抬起头，说：“不行。为什么？”
6:35 And I just said, "No? I'm sorry." Then I turned around, and I just ran.
我说：“不行吗？真不好意思。”然后我转身就逃了。
6:39 (Laughter)
6:41 I felt so embarrasd. But becau I filmed mylf -- so that night I was watching mylf getting rejected, I just saw how scared I was. I looked like this kid in "The Sixth Sen." I saw dead people.
我感觉非常尴尬。但是因为我录下了这段经历，所以那天晚上，我重看了一遍被拒绝的过程，我看到了自己有多害怕。像是《灵异第六感》里的孩子，看见死人一样害怕。
