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TED演讲英文演讲稿:内向性格的力量
WhenIwasnineyearsoldIwentofftosummercampforthe
otherpackedmeasuitcafullofbooks,
e
inmyfamily,s
mightsoundantisocialtoyou,butforusitwasreallyjust
etheanimalwarmthof
yourfamilysittingrightnexttoyou,butyouarealsofree
togoroamingaroundtheadventurelandinsideyourownmind.
AndIhadthisideathatcampwasgoingtobejustlikethis,
butbetter.(Laughter)Ihadavisionof10girlssittingin
acabincozilyreadingbooksintheirmatchingnightgowns.
(Laughter)
theveryfirstdayourcounlorgatheredusalltogetherand
shetaughtusacheerthatshesaidwewouldbedoingeveryday
ent
likethis:"R-O-W-D-I-E,that',
rowdie,let'sgetrowdie."ldn'tfigureoutfor
thelifeofmewhyweweresuppodtobesorowdy,orwhywe
hadtospellthiswordincorrectly.(Laughter)ButIrecited
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stwaitedforthetimethatIcouldgooffand
readmybooks.
ButthefirsttimethatItookmybookoutofmysuitca,
thecoolestgirlinthebunkcameuptomeandsheaskedme,
"Whyareyoubeingsomellow?"--mellow,ofcour,beingthe
nthecondtimeItried
it,thecounlorcameuptomewithaconcernedexpressionon
herfaceandsherepeatedthepointaboutcampspiritandsaid
weshouldallworkveryhardtobeoutgoing.
AndsoIputmybooksaway,backintheirsuitca,andI
putthemundermybed,andtheretheystayedfortherestof
sif
thebooksneededmesomehow,andtheywerecallingouttome
dforsakethemandIdidn't
openthatsuitcaagainuntilIwasbackhomewithmyfamily
attheendofthesummer.
Now,have
toldyou50othersjustlikeit--allthetimesthatIgotthe
messagethatsomehowmyquietandintrovertedstyleofbeing
wasnotnecessarilytherightwaytogo,thatIshouldbetrying
waysnddeepdown
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thatthiswaswrongandthatintrovertswereprettyexcellent
yearsIdeniedthisintuition,and
soIbecameaWallStreetlawyer,ofallthings,insteadofthe
writerthatIhadalwayslongedtobe--partlybecauIneeded
IwasalwaysgoingofftocrowdedbarswhenIreallywouldhave
de
thelf-negatingchoicessoreflexively,thatIwasn'teven
awarethatIwasmakingthem.
Nowthisiswhatmanyintrovertsdo,andit'sourlossfor
sure,butitisalsoourcolleagues'lossandourcommunities'
heriskofsoundinggrandio,itistheworld's
ewhenitcomestocreativityandtoleadership,
toahalf
's
ifyou're
anextrovertyourlf,I'mtalkingaboutyourcoworkersand
yourspousandyourchildrenandthepersonsittingnextto
yourightnow--allofthemsubjecttothisbiasthatispretty
nternalizeitfromavery
earlyagewithoutevenhavingalanguageforwhatwe'redoing.
Nowtoethebiasclearlyyouneedtounderstandwhat
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'sis
ersionismoreabout,how
doyourespondtostimulation,includingsocialstimulation.
Soextrovertsreallycravelargeamountsofstimulation,
whereasintrovertsfeelattheirmostaliveandtheirmost
switched-onandtheirmostcapablewhenthey'reinquieter,
thetime--thethings
aren'eythento
maximizingourtalentsisforusalltoputourlvesinthe
zoneofstimulationthatisrightforus.
Butnowhere'timportant
institutions,ourschoolsandourworkplaces,theyaredesigned
mostlyforextrovertsandforextroverts'needforlotsof
owehavethisbeliefsystemrightnowthat
Icallthenewgroupthink,whichholdsthatallcreativityand
allproductivitycomesfromaveryoddlygregariousplace.
Soifyoupicturethetypicalclassroomnowadays:WhenI
wasgoingtoschool,nrowsofdesks
likethis,
nowadays,yourtypicalclassroomhaspodsofdesks--fouror
sare
subjectslike
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mathandcreativewriting,whichyouthinkwoulddependonsolo
flightsofthought,kidsarenowexpectedtoactascommittee
thekidswhoprefertogooffbythemlves
orjusttoworkalone,thokidsareenasoutliersoften
or,wor,vastmajorityofteachers
reportsbelievingthattheidealstudentisanextrovertas
oppodtoanintrovert,eventhoughintrovertsactuallyget
bettergradesandaremoreknowledgeable,accordingtorearch.
(Laughter)
Okay,,mostof
usworkinopenplanoffices,withoutwalls,whereweare
whenitcomestoleadership,introvertsareroutinelypasd
overforleadershippositions,eventhoughintrovertstendto
beverycareful,muchlesslikelytotakeoutsizerisks--which
eresting
rearchbyAdamGrantattheWhartonSchoolhasfoundthat
introvertedleadersoftendeliverbetteroutcomesthan
extrovertsdo,becauwhentheyaremanagingproactive
employees,they'remuchmorelikelytoletthoemployeesrun
withtheirideas,whereasanextrovertcan,quiteunwittingly,
getsoexcitedaboutthingsthatthey'reputtingtheirownstamp
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onthings,andotherpeople'sideasmightnotaasilythen
bubbleuptothesurface.
Nowinfact,someofourtransformativeleadersinhistory
havebeenintroverts.I'r
Roovelt,RosaParks,Gandhi--allthepeopleddescribed
yall
tookthespotlight,eventhougheveryboneintheirbodieswas
sturnsouttohaveaspecialpower
allitsown,becaupeoplecouldfeelthattheleaderswere
atthehelm,notbecautheyenjoyeddirectingothersandnot
outofthepleasureofbeinglookedat;theyweretherebecau
theyhadnochoice,becautheyweredriventodowhatthey
thoughtwasright.
NowIthinkatthispointit'simportantformetosaythat
sliketosaysomeofmybest
friendsareextroverts,
allfallatdifferentpoints,ofcour,alongthe
introvert/rlJung,thepsychologist
whofirstpopularizedtheterms,saidthatthere'snosuch
thatsuch
amanwouldbeinalunaticasylum,
somepeoplefallsmackinthemiddleoftheintrovert/extrovert
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spectrum,tenthink
yofusdo
recognizeourlvesasonetypeortheother.
AndwhatI'msayingisthatculturallyweneedamuchbetter
moreofayinandyangbetweenthetwotypes.
Thisispeciallyimportantwhenitcomestocreativityand
toproductivity,becauwhenpsychologistslookatthelives
ofthemostcreativepeople,whattheyfindarepeoplewhoare
verygoodatexchangingideasandadvancingideas,butwhoalso
haveariousstreakofintroversioninthem.
Andthisisbecausolitudeisacrucialingredientoften
in,hetooklongwalksaloneinthewoods
r
Geil,,hedreamedupmanyofhis
amazingcreationsinalonelybelltowerofficethathehadin
thebackofhishouinLaJolla,as
actuallyafraidtomeettheyoungchildrenwhoreadhisbooks
forfearthattheywereexpectinghimthiskindofjollySanta
Claus-likefigureandwouldbedisappointedwithhismore
ozniakinventedthefirstApple
computersittingaloneinhiscubicalinHewlett-Packardwhere
aysthatheneverwouldhave
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becomesuchanexpertinthefirstplacehadhenotbeentoo
introvertedtoleavethehouwhenhewasgrowingup.
Nowofcour,thisdoesnotmeanthatweshouldallstop
collaborating--andcainpoint,isSteveWozniakfamously
comingtogetherwithSteveJobstostartAppleComputer--but
itdoesmeanthatsolitudemattersandthatforsomepeopleit
act,wehaveknownfor
'sonly
recentlythatwe'ook
atmostoftheworld'smajorreligions,youwillfindekers
--Mos,Jesus,Buddha,Muhammad--ekerswhoaregoingoff
bythemlvesalonetothewildernesswheretheythenhave
profoundepiphaniesandrevelationsthattheythenbringback
lderness,norevelations.
Thisisnosurprithoughifyoulookattheinsightsof
soutthatwecan'tevenbein
agroupofpeoplewithoutinstinctivelymirroring,mimicking
outeminglypersonalandvisceral
thingslikewhoyou'reattractedto,youwillstartapingthe
beliefsofthepeoplearoundyouwithoutevenrealizingthat
that'swhatyou'redoing.
Andgroupsfamouslyfollowtheopinionsofthemost
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dominantorcharismaticpersonintheroom,eventhoughthere's
zerocorrelationbetweenbeingthebesttalkerandhavingthe
...(Laughter)Youmightbe
followingthepersonwiththebestideas,butyoumightnot.
Anddoyoureallywanttoleaveituptochance?Muchbetter
foreverybodytogooffbythemlves,generatetheirownideas
freedfromthedistortionsofgroupdynamics,andthencome
togetherasateamtotalkthemthroughinawell-managed
environmentandtakeitfromthere.
Nowifallthisistrue,thenwhyarewegettingitsowrong?
Whyarewettingupourschoolsthiswayandourworkplaces?
Andwhyarewemakingtheintrovertsfeelsoguiltyabout
wantingtojustgooffbythemlvessomeofthetime?Oneanswer
nsocieties,andin
particulartheU.S.,havealwaysfavoredthemanofactionover
themanofcontemplationand"man"
America'arlydays,welivedinwhathistorianscallaculture
ofcharacter,wherewestill,atthatpoint,valuedpeoplefor
oulook
atthelf-helpbooksfromthira,theyallhadtitleswith
thingslike"Character,theGrandestThingintheWorld."And
theyfeaturedrolemodelslikeAbrahamLincolnwhowaspraid
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aldoEmersoncalledhim
"Amanwhodoesnotoffendbysuperiority."
Butthenwehitthe20thcenturyandweenteredanewculture
ppened
iswehadevolvedanagriculturaleconomytoaworldofbig
uddenlypeoplearemovingfromsmalltowns
teadofworkingalongsidepeoplethey've
knownalltheirlives,nowtheyarehavingtoprovethemlves
,quiteunderstandably,qualities
likemagnetismandcharismasuddenlycometoemreally
eenough,thelf-helpbookschangetomeet
thenewneedsandtheystarttohavenameslike"HowtoWin
FriendsandInfluencePeople."Andtheyfeatureastheirrole
'stheworldwe'reliving
'sourculturalinheritance.
Nownoneofthisistosaythatsocialskillsare
unimportant,andI'malsonotcallingfortheabolishingof
ereligionswhondtheirsagesoff
problemsthatwearefacingtodayinfieldslikescienceand
ineconomicsaresovastandsocomplexthatwearegoingto
needarmiesofpeoplecomingtogethertosolvethemworking
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sayingthatthemorefreedomthatwegive
introvertstobethemlves,themorelikelythattheyareto
comeupwiththeirownuniquesolutionstotheproblems.
SonowI'dliketosharewithyouwhat'sinmysuitcatoday.
Guesswhat?'s
MargaretAtwood,"Cat'sEye."Here'sanovelbyMilanKundera.
Andhere's"TheGuideforthePerplexed"
htthebookswithme
becautheywerewrittenbymygrandfather'sfavoriteauthors.
Mygrandfatherwasarabbiandhewasawidowerwholived
aloneinasmallapartmentinBrooklynthatwasmyfavorite
placeintheworldwhenIwasgrowingup,partlybecauitwas
filledwithhisverygentle,verycourtlyprenceandpartly
iterallyeverytable,
everychairinthisapartmenthadyieldeditsoriginalfunction
ke
therestofmyfamily,mygrandfather'sfavoritethingtodo
inthewholeworldwastoread.
Buthealsolovedhiscongregation,andyoucouldfeelthis
loveinthermonsthathegaveeveryweekforthe62years
dtakesthefruitsofeachweek's
readingandhewouldweavetheintricatetapestriesof
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plewouldcomefromall
overtohearhimspeak.
Buthere'eaththis
ceremonialrole,hewasreallymodestandreallyintroverted
--somuchsothatwhenhedeliveredthermons,hehad
troublemakingeyecontactwiththeverysamecongregationthat
nawayfromthe
podium,whenyoucalledhimtosayhello,hewouldoftenend
theconversationprematurelyforfearthathewastakinguptoo
nhediedattheageof94,thepolice
hadtoclodownthestreetsofhisneighborhoodtoaccommodate
hedays
Itrytolearnfrommygrandfather'xampleinmyownway.
SoIjustpublishedabookaboutintroversion,andittook
me,thatvenyearswas
liketotalbliss,becauIwasreading,Iwaswriting,Iwas
thinking,yversionofmy
grandfather'
allofasuddenmyjobisverydifferent,andmyjobistobe
outheretalkingaboutit,talkingaboutintroversion.
(Laughter)Andthat'salotharderforme,becauashonored
asIamtobeherewithallofyourightnow,thisisnotmy
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naturalmilieu.
thelastyearpracticingpublicspeakingeverychanceIcould
llthismy"yearofspeakingdangerously."
(Laughter)'lltellyou,
whathelpvenmoreismyn,mybelief,myhopethatwhen
itcomestoourattitudestointroversionandtoquietandto
solitude,wetrulyarepoidonthebrinkondramaticchange.
Imean,amgoingtoleaveyounowwiththree
callsforactionforthowhosharethisvision.
Numberone:
stopit.(Laughter)Thankyou.(Applau)AndIwanttobeclear
aboutwhatI'msaying,becauIdeeplybelieveouroffices
shouldbeencouragingcasual,chattycafe-styletypesof
interactions--youknow,thekindwherepeoplecometogether
great.
It'sgreatforintrovertsandit'
weneedmuchmoreprivacyandmuchmorefreedomandmuchmore
,tobeteaching
kidstoworktogether,forsure,butwealsoneedtobeteaching
especiallyimportantfor
edtoworkontheirownbecau
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thatiswheredeepthoughtcomesfrominpart.
Okay,numbertwo:Buddha,have
yourownrevelations.I'mnotsayingthatweallhavetonow
gooffandbuildourowncabinsinthewoodsandnevertalkto
eachotheragain,butIamsayingthatwecouldallstandto
unplugandgetinsideourownheadsalittlemoreoften.
Numberthree:Takeagoodlookatwhat'sinsideyourown
overts,maybeyour
ethey'refullof
eritis,I
hopeyoutakethethingsouteverychanceyougetandgrace
roverts,youbeingyou,
youprobablyhavetheimpultoguardverycarefullywhat's
t'asionally,
justoccasionally,Ihopeyouwillopenupyoursuitcasfor
otherpeopletoe,becautheworldneedsyouanditneeds
thethingsyoucarry.
SoIwishyouthebestofallpossiblejourneysandthe
couragetospeaksoftly.
Thankyouverymuch.
(Applau)
ou.
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