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Thebeautyindustry.....................................................................................................................................2
HolidayHeadache...........................................................................................................................................3
Arthritisall-clearforhighheels........................................................................................................4
DisneyWorld...................................................................................................................................................5
SecretstoaGreatLife.............................................................................................................................6
The50-PercentTheoryofLife.................................................................................................................8
TheRoadtoHappiness.................................................................................................................................9
SixFamousWords.........................................................................................................................................11
WriteYourOwnLife...................................................................................................................................12
StarbucksinvadesParisiancafeculture
AformofaliencivilisationhasfinallylandedinParis-unfamiliargreenandblacksignshave
appearedontheAvenuedeL'Opera.
ItisthefirstStarbuckscafetoboldlygowherenoStarbuckshasgonebefore,onto
potentiallyhostileFrenchterritory.
ItsadvertisingpostersontheChampsElyeannounce"Starbucks-apassionpourlecafe".
Butisthecompanyawareoftheriskitistakingbychallengingtheverybirthplaceofcafe
society
"Ithinkeverytimewecomeintoanewmarketwedoitwithagreatnofrespect,agreat
dealofinterestinhowthatcafesocietyhasdevelopedovertime,"BillO'SheaofStarbucks
says.
"Werecognithereisahugehistoryhereofcafesocietyandwehaveeveryconfidencewe
canenjoy,augmentandjoininthatpassion."
esomesniffinessintheFrenchpress,someyoungerFrenchare
expressingtheirexcitementthattheywillfinallybeabletovisitthekindofcafetheylove
towatchontheUSTVriesFriends.
Infact,forsome,itisanexoticrarity,farmoreexcitingthantheaverageFrenchcafe.
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Melissa,aged18,saysshecanhardlywait:"IloveStarbuckscaramelcoffee-it'svery
goodandIliketheconceptthatthey'StarbuckswillbeOKforFrench
people."
AnAmericantouristiquallyexcitedwhenshespotsthesign-thiscouldbejustthething
tohelphergetovertheoccasionaltwingeofhomesickness.
"IlovetheFrenchcafes,butStarbucksissopopularintheStatesandit'sbecomepart
ofAmericancultureandnowit'scometoFrance,andthat'sOK,"shesaid.
ButthatistheproblemformanyFrench,whodonotwantFrancetobejustliketherest
oftheworld:withstandardiddisposalcupsofcoffee-identicalin7,000branchesaround
theworld-eveniftheyaretermedhandcraftedbeverages.
Atthetraditionalcafes,customersworrythatthebigUScoffeehouchainscoulddrive
outsmall,family-ownedcafes.
OthersherethinktheycouldcomeroundtotheideaofStarbucks,thoughforthemitwould
neverreplacethecornercafeorthetypicalParisianpetitnoircoffee.
Thebeautyindustry
TheoneAmericanindustryunaffetedbythegeneraldepressionoftradeisthebeautyindustry.
Americanwomencontinuetospendontheirfacesandbodiesasmuchastheyspentbeforethecoming
actsandfiguresare'official',and
canbeacceptedasbeingsubstantiallytrue.
re,thenthepersonal
appearanceind,
aswehaveen,theyhavenotareretrenchingonotherthingsthantheirfaces.
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Women,itisobvious,otonlytoperformthegenerally
unenviablesocialfunctionshitherorervedtothemale,butalsofreertoexercithemore
pleasing,tunesaremadejustlybyface-cream
manufacturersandbeauty-specialists,bythellersofrubberreducing-beltsandmassage
machines,bythepatenteesofhair-lotionsandtheauthorsofbooksonthecultureoftheabdomen.
Itisasuccessinsofarasmorewomenretaintheiryouthfulappearancetoagreaterage
traitoftheArtist'sMotherwillcometobealmostindisinguishable,
atfuturepictureshows,fromthePortraioftheArtist'cessispartdueto
skinfoodsandinjectionsofparaffin-wax,facialsurgery,mudbaths,andpaint,andinpart
omepeople,thecampaignformorebeautyisalsoacompaignfor
thatismerelytheartificialshadowofthesymptomsofheslthis
,itisasufficientlygood
iddle-in-comepresoncanafford
thecosmeticapparatusandmoreknowledgeofthewayinwhichrealherlthcanbeachievedis
athappymomentcomes,willeverywomanbebeautiful-as
beautiful,atanyrate,asthenaturalshapeofherfeaturesTheanswerisapparent:No,forreal
beautyisasmuchanaffairoftheinnerasoftheouterlf.
HolidayHeadache
AllIwantedwasacozylogcabininthestateofMaine,somewheredeepinthewoods,tohang
obemyfirstvacationwithmyboyfriend,andIwantedittobe
perfect.
Soratherthanwastemoneyonaguidebookthatwasboundtobeoutdatedbeforeitappeared
ontheshelvesofmylocalbookstore,didIknowthatwhen
Itypedthewords“Mainelogcabinrental”at,Iwassteppinginto48hoursofInternethell.
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Forgetdinner,forgetwork,uedtomycomputerforhoursclickingfrom
onelistingtoanothertofindtheperfecthideaway.
stsitethatItried,,groupedrentalsbyregionbuthadnomaptotell
mewheresuchromantic-sounding,placesasSealCoveorOwl’tologon
totolocateeachone,thenreturntosloggingthroughsite,,letmefind50cabinsandcottages
rightoff,butmostoftherentalsturnedouttobeclodforthewinter.
andhundredsoflistingslater,
ry10vacationspotsIlookedinto,I
foundmaybeonethatsoundedgoodandmoreoftenthannot,itwasbooked,toofaraway,or
ingonlinewasreallygivingmeafinallydecidedtoputour
ltapaperback
bookcalledAmerica’sFavoriteInns,B&Bs,lievedtoethateach
citywasneatlypinpointedonadetailedmap,andmosthadgooddescriptionstohelpmefigure
outwhereinMaineweshouldgointhefirstplace.
ThenIfoundit:anoldinnonthesoutherncoastofMainethatrentedusoneofitsbest
roomsfor$hatItdidn’ychancesbadonagood
review,’talogcabin,anditwasfarfromthe
woods,buttherewerelacecurtains,eocean
outsideourwindowandafireplaceintheroom,myholidaywasjustascozyasIdreameditwould
be.
Arthritisall-clearforhighheels
Fearsthatwearinghigh-heeledshoescouldleadtokneearthritisareunfounded,sayrearchers.
Butbeingoverweight,smoking,andhavingapreviouskneeinjurydoesincreatherisk,the
teamfromOxfordBrookesUniverstityfound.
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Theylookedatmorethan100womenagedbetween50and70waitingforkneesurgery,andfound
thatchoiceofshoeswasnotafactor
ThestudywaspublishedintheJournalofEpidemilologyandpublichealth.
Morethan2%ofthepopulationagedover55sufferxtremepainasaresultofosteoarthrits
oftheknee.
Theconditionistwiceascommonin65-year-oldwomenasitisinmenofthesameage.
Women'sandmen'skneesarenotbiologicallydifferent,sothereracherswantedtofind
outwhytwiceasmanywomenasmendeveloposteoarthritisinthejoint.
Somerearchershavespeculatedthahigh-heeledshoesmaybetoblame.
Thewomeninthestudywerequizzedondetailsoftheirheightandweightwhentheyleft
school,between36and40andbetween51and55.
Theywereaskedaboutinjuries,theirjobs,smokinganduofcontraceptivehormones.
Howere,whilemanyofthefactorswerelinkedtoanincreadriskovertheyearswasnot.
Therearcherswrote:"Mostofthewomenhadbeenexpodtohighheeledshoesoverthe
years-nevertheless,aconsistentfindingwasareducedriskofosteoarthritisoftheknee.
Therewasanevenmorepronouncedlinkbetweenregulardancinginthree-inchheelsanda
reducedriskofkneeproblems.
Therearchersdescribedthisfindingas"surprising",butsaidthattheywouldnotexpect
alarger-scalestudytooverturntheirfindings.
DisneyWorld
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DisneyWorld,Florida,rsthousandacres,
penedonOctober11971,fiveyearsafterWaltDisney’s
death,anditisalarger,slightlymoreambitiousversionofDisneylandnearLosAngeles.
ForeignerstendtoassociateWaltDisneywithSnowWhiteandtheSevenDwarfs,andwithhis
otherfamouscartooncharacters,MickeyMouandDonaldDuck.
actspeopleofmost
tastesandmostincomegroups,andpeopleofallages,retwo
expensivehotels,agolfcour,foresttrailsforhorbackridingandriversforcanoeing.
ButthecentralattractionoftheresortistheMagicKingdom.
Betw
distancerithetowersofCinderella’ttingtotheMagicKingdomisquite
eithercrossthelakeonareplica
ofaMississippipaddlewheeler,oryoucanglidearoundtheshoreinastreamlinedmonorailtrain.
Whenyoureachtheterminal,youwalkstraightintoalittlesquarewhichfacesMainStreet.
remodernshopsinsidethebuildings,butallthefacades
rehangingbasketsfullofredandwhiteflowers,andthereisnotraffic
ouwalkthroughthe
MagicKingdom,how
theshops,restaurantsandallothermaterialneedsoftheMagicKingdomareinvisiblysupplied.
SecretstoaGreatLife
Agreatlifedoesn’lifeistheresultofallocatingyourtime,
energy,thoughts,andhardworktowardswhatyouwantyourlifetottingyourlfupforstress
andfailure,andstartttingupyourlifetosupportsuccessandea.
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Agreatlifeistheresultofusingthe24/7yougetinacreativeandthoughtfulway,instead
izethe“crets”tofityourownneedsandstyle,andstart
creatingyourowngreatlifetoday!
1.S—Simplify.
ufocusonsimplifyingyourlife,
youfreeupenergyandtimefortheworkthatyouenjoyandthepurpoforwhichyouarehere.
Inordertocreateagreatlife,youwillhavetomakeroomforitinyoursfirst.
2.E—Effort.
ngagreatliferequiresthatyoumake
slookingfornewwaystospendyourenergythatcoincidewithyour
llrewardyourbesteffort.
3.C—CreatePriorities.
’asytospendyourdaysjust
respondingtothenextthingthatgetsyourattention,insteadofintentionallyusingthetime,
energyandmoneyyouhaveinawaythat’reyouarehonoringyour
priorities.
4.R—Rerves.
Agreatlifeistheresultofhavingrerves—rervesofthings,time,space,energy,money.
Withrerves,esareimportantbecautheyreduce
thefearofconquences,andthatallowsyoutomakedecisionsbadonwhatyoureallywant
insteadofwhatthefeardecidesforyou.
5.E—Eliminatedistractions.
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oundatsomeone’slifeyou
theydothatyouwouldliketoincorporateintoyourownlifeAskthemhowthey
ystofreeupyourmentalenergyforthingsthataremoreimportanttoyou.
6.T—Thoughts.
Agreatlifeistheresultofcontrollingyourthoughtssothatyouacceptandallowfor
thepossibilitythatitactuallycanhappentoyou!Yourbeliefintheoutcomewilldirectly
tedpeoplehavespecificgoalsandlookforwaystoachieve
them.
7.S—Start.
’stheoldsayingeveryone’sfamiliarwith
“ajourneyofathousandmilesbeginswithasinglestep”.There’snobettertimetostart
thantoday.
Don’twaitforarai,oruntilthekidsgetolder,ortheweatherisbetter.
It’swhatyoudoTODAYthatwillmakeadifferenceinyourlifetomorrow.
The50-PercentTheoryofLife
etimethingsarebetterthannormal;theotherhalf,
stimeandexperiencetounderstand
whatnormalis,andthatgivesmetheperspectivetodealwiththesurprisofthefuture.
Let’sbenchmarktheparameters:Yes,Iwilldie.I’vedealtwiththedeathsofbothparents,
abestfriend,thedeathshavebeenviolent,before
myeyes,ff,ere
arethohighpoints:romanceandmarriagetotherightperson;havingachildanddoingtho
Dadthingslikecoachingmyson’sbaballteam,paddlingaroundthecreekintheboatwhile
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he’sswimmingwiththedogs,discoveringhiscompassionsodeepitmanifestveninhiskindness
tosnails,hisimaginationsovividhebuildsaspaceshipfromascatteredpileofLegos.
Butthereisavastmeadowoflifeinthemiddle,wherethebadandthegoodflip-flop
whatconvincesmetobelieveinthe50-percentspringIplantedcorntoo
hagrinedatthewastedeffort.
Summerturnedbrutal—-conditionerdied,
thewellwentdry,themarriageended,thejoblost,vinglyricsfrom
acountrytune—urgingKansasCityRoyalsteam,boundfortheirfirst
WorldSeries,buoyedmybackonthathorriblesummer,Isoonunderstoodthatallsucceeding
hannormalwouldn’dandsavor
invigoratemeforthenextnastysurpriandofferassurance
thatIcanthrive.
The50percenttheoryevenhelpsmeehopebeyondmyRoyals’recentslump,afieldof
s,yeah,the
corncropForthatoneblisteringsummer,thegroundmoisturewasjustright,plantingearly
allowedpollinationbeforeheatwitheredthetops,andthelackofrainsparedthestandingcorn
ntermycriboverflowedwithcorn—fat,healthythree-to-a-stalkearsfilled
withkernelsfromheeltotip—whilemyneighbors’fieldsyieldedonlybrown,emptyhusks.
Althoughplantingspastmayhavefallenbelowthe50-percentexpectation,andtheyprobably
willagaininthefuture,Iamstillsustainedbythecropthatflourishesduringthedrought.
TheRoadtoHappiness
Itisonly
rsatMonteCarloarepursuingmoney,andmostofthem
loitinstead,butthereareotherwaysofpursuingmoney,with
ursueitbymeansofdrink,youareforgettingthehangover.
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Epicuruspursueditbylivingonlyincongenialsocietyandeatingonlydrybread,
hodprovedsuccessfulinhisca,but
hewasavaletudinarian,andmostpeoplewouldneedsomethingmorevigorous.
Formostpeople,thepursuitofhappiness,unlesssupplementedinvariousways,istoo
inkthatwhatever
personalruleoflifeyoumaychooitshouldnot,exceptinrareandheroiccas,beincompatible
withyoulookaroundatthemenandwomenwhomyoucancallhappy,willethattheyallhave
timportantofthethingsisanactivitywhichatmostgradually
buildsupsomethingthatyouaregladtoecomingintoexistence.
Womenwhotakeaninstinctivepleasureintheirchildrencangetthiskindofsatisfaction
sandauthorsandmenofsciencegethappinessinthisway
rearemanyhumblerformsofthesamekindofpleasure.
Manymenwhospendtheirworkinglifeinthecitydevotetheirweekendstovoluntaryand
unremuneratedtoilintheirgardens,andwhenthespringcomes,theyexperienceallthejoys
ofhavingcreatedbeauty.
Thewholesubjectofhappinesshas,inmyopinion,een
sthowhohave
beenrenderedunhappybyabadtheorymayneedabettertheorytohelpthemtorecover,just
nthingsarenormalamanshouldbe
healthy]esimplethingsthatreallymatter.
Ifamandelightsinhiswifeandchildren,hassuccessinwork,andfindspleasureinthe
alternationofdayandnight,springandautumn,hewillbehappywhateverhisphilosophymay
,ontheotherhand,hefindshiswifefateful,hischildren’snoiunendurable,and
theofficeanightmare;ifinthedaytimehelongsfornight,andatnightsighsforthelight
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ofday,thenwhatheneedsisnotanewphilosophybutanewregimen—adifferentdiet,ormore
exerci,orwhatnot.
Manisananimal,andhishappinessdependsonhisphysiologymorethanhelikestothink.
Thisisahumbleconclusion,ybusinessmen,Iam
wouldincreatheirhappinessmorebywalkingsixmileverydaythanbyanyconceivablechange
ofphilosophy.
SixFamousWords
“Tobeornottobe.”OutsidetheBible,thesixwordsarethemostfamousinalltheliterature
respokenbyHamletwhenhewasthinkingaloud,andtheyarethemostfamous
wordsinShakespearebecauHamletwasspeakingnotonlyforhimlfbutalsoforeverythinking
manandwoman.
Tobeornottobe,toliveornottolive,toliverichlyandabundantlyandeagerly,or
sopheroncewantedtoknowwhetherhewasalive
ornot,eredit
bysaying:“Ithink,thereforeIam.”ButthebestdefinitionofexistenceIeversawwasone
writtenbyanotherphilosopherwhosaid:“Tobeistobeinrelations.”Ifthisistrue,then
themorerelationsalivingthinghas,themoreitisalive.
Toliveabundantlymeanssimplytoincreatherangeandintensityofourrelations.
rtfromourregular
occupationhowmucharewealiveIfyouareinterestedonlyinyourregularoccupation,youare
sotherthingsareconcerned—poetryandpro,music,pictures,
sports,unlfishfriendships,politics,internationalaffairs—riwi,it
istruethateverytimeyouacquireanewinterest—evenmore,anewaccomplishment—youincrea
yourpoweroflife.
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Noonewhoisdeeplyinterestedinalargevarietyofsubjectscanremainunhappy,thereal
aidthatamandiesasoftenashelos
ainnewlifebycontactsandnewfriends.
Whatissupremelytrueoflivingobjectsisonlylesstrueofideas,whicharealsoalive.
Whereyourthoughtsare,thoughtsareconfinedonlyto
yourbusiness,onlytoyourphysicalwelfare,onlytothenarrowcircleofthetowninwhich
youlive,ouareinterestedinwhatisgoing
oninChina,thenyouarelivinginChina—ifyou’reinterestedinthecharactersofagood
novel,thenyouarelivingwiththohighlyinterestingpeople,ifyoulistenintentlytofine
music,youareawayfromyourimmediatesurroundingsandlivinginaworldofpassionand
imagination.
Tobeornottobe—toliveintenlyandrichly,merelytoexist,thatdependsonourlves.
elive,letlive!
WriteYourOwnLife
Supposomeonegaveyouapen—aaled,ldn’tehowmuchinkit
trundryafterthefirstfewtentativewordsorlastjustlongenoughtocreate
amasterpiece(orveral)thatwouldlastforeverandmakeadifferenceintheschemeofthings.
Youdon’herulesofthegame,e
totakeachance!
Actually,dofpickingupandusing
thepen,youcouldleaveitonashelforinadrawerwhereitwilldryup,ou
dodecidetouit,whatwouldyoudowithit
Howwouldyouplaythegame
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WouldyouplanandplanbeforeyoueverwroteawordWouldyourplansbesoextensivethat
youneverevengottothewritingOrwouldyoutakethepeninhand,plungerightinandjust
doit,strugglingtokeepupwiththetwistsandturnsofthetorrentsofwordsthattakeyou
wheretheytakeyouWouldyouwritecautiouslyandcarefully,asifthepenmightrundrythe
nextmoment,orwouldyoupretendorbelieve(orpretendtobelieve)thatthepenwillwrite
foreverandproceedaccordinglyAndofwhatwouldyouwrite:OfloveHateFunMiryLifeDeath
NothingEverything
WouldyouwritetopleajustyourlfOrothersOryourlfbywritingforothers
WouldyourstrokesbetremblinglytimidorbrilliantlyboldFancywithaflourishorplain
WouldyouevenwriteOnceyouhavethepen,norulesaysyouhavetowrite.
WouldyousketchScribbleDoodleordraw
Wouldyoustayinoronthelines,orenolinesatall,eveniftheywerethereOrare
they
There’salottothinkabouthere,isn’tthereNow,supposomeonegaveyoualife…
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