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英语⼝语话题及范例复习进程

nIlove

her’ebirthtomeand

lwaysstandingbehindmeinallthatIdo.

Igrewupleanonmymother,sheismyfirstteacher,shetaughthowtoread,howtowrite,howtogetalongwithotherpeople,

howtobeapositiveandhonestperson.

Shed

westaytogether,esomeproblems,I’

willcomfortwhenI’msad,lovemewhenI’mmad,pickmeupwhenI’mdown,encouragemewhenIneedashove.

ferencesbetweenmotherlyloveandfatherlyloveifthereareany?

Accordingtomypersonalexperiences,

Icanfeelmotherlyloveisdirect,

other'yes,eelwarm

maynotgoodatshowingtheir

eannoyed,aneel

safe,itmaybebecaufemaleareperceptualwhilemalearerational.

youthinkmakesagoodheart?

TobekindthoughtfulforgivingcaringandgeneroushonestControlone’stemperesaytogetgetalongwithotherandbea

goodlistener

Keepacalmattitude

Apersonwithagoodheartshouldbeabletotreatotherquallynomatterwhatsheorheis,howsheorhelooksorwhat

aysbebravetofacethedifficultinlifeandlovelife.

’syourattitude?

Somepeoplelookdownupondisabledpeople,thinkingtheybringmanytroubles.

Somepeopletheyarepoor,feltmuchsympathyforthem

Thesocialattitudestowardsdisabledpeopleareoftentooprotection,

attitudeisthatwecan’tlookdownupondisabledpeople,

facetheproblem

ethebenefitsofkeepingpets?Andwhatarethetroubles?

P23

Good:alwaysstaybyyourside(exceptdead).Itis

:ifpetsarenotoftenbathed,’mess

mesitistoonoisytokeepadog.

hortsummaryofthearticleSpeakingDifferentLanguages.P45

Manandwomenlanguagesould

tendtoexaggeratethefactorsandmenreactinanunsupportivemanner,becautheymistakenlytaketheexpressions

portanttorethinkortranslatewhatpeoplehaveheard.

meexamples.

Manandwomenldommeanthesamethingevenwhentheyuthesamewords.

Genderdifference(性别差异)

Manandwomenlanguages

expressionsweresimilar,buttheyhaddifferentconnotations(含义)e:“Ifeellikeyounever

listen.”Usingtheword“never”isjusta

wayofexpressingthefrustration.

Womanwouldtendtoexaggeratethefactor,menmistakenlytaketheexpressionsliterally,reactinanunsupportive

speechasameansofconveyingonlyfactsandinformation.

Example:woman:“wenevergoout.”Menrespond”wewentoutlastweek.”

ethecausofmisunderstandingsinhumancommunication?Givesomeexamples.

Reasons:pronunciation

Culturaldifference

Character(outgoingintrovert)性格差异

Genderdifference

Emotion(nervouxcited)

CommunicationSkill(gesture)

Situation1

英国⼈对家⼈的帮忙会说谢谢；⽽中国⼈认为帮助家⾥⼈是⼀种义务，所以⽆需⾔谢。Interactions:helpbetweenfamily

membersConventions:politeness

ChineConventions:one'sownobligation,noneedtothankorbethanked

BritishandAmericanConventions:Expectpoliteexpressionslike'plea','thankyou',etc.

Situation2

外国⼈觉得中国⼈对待他们是⼗分友好的，但是有时候会问出⼀些令他们感到尴尬的问题，⽐如问他们的年龄和⼯资。

Interactions:conversationbetweenpeoplemeetingforthefirsttime

Conventions:conversationaltopics,privacy,taboo,openness,directnessChineConventions:ManyChinepeopletend

toaskaboutage,maritalstatus,,theareopenconversational

gaperson'sagehelpsthemuappropriatetermsofaddress,suchas'LaoWang','XiaoLi',orkintermssuch

as'uncle'or'aunt',nepeoplepayalotofattentiontofamilylife,sonaturallytalkoffamilymembersfeaturesas

lary,sincethereisanationalsystemofsalaries,peopleusuallydon'tconsideritacretandthey

handAmericanConventions:InBritain,boo

questions:age,reconsideredtooprivateortoopersonaltotalkaboutwhenfirstmeeting

someone.

Situation3

中国⼈结伴出游的时候，如果买什么东西，去买的⼈⼀般都会按照⼈头购买，即便有⼈客⽓地说不要；和外国⼈结伴出游，如

果你客⽓地推说不需要某样东西，那么对⽅真的就不会给你买。Interactions:offeringrefreshmentsordrinks

Conventions:politeness,individualdecision

ChineConventions:WhenaChineoffersrefreshmentsordrinkstohiscolleague,hiscolleagueoftendeclinestheoffer

politely,becauhedoesn'lythepersonwho

offersstillpreparesorbuysrefreshmentsordrinks,gfoodanddrinkwhen

goingouttogetheriscommonamongcolleaguesandfriends.

BritishandAmericanConventions:Respectone'sowndecision,'yes'meansonewantsit,'no'meansonedoesn't,politeness

isusuallyshownbytheexpression'thankyou'or'plea'.

etheimportantfactorsforsuccessfulcommunications?Speakclearly

Beconfident

Organizewellandputmorefocusonmainidea

Payattentiontothedifferentspeakinghabitofdifferentx,education,andculturalbackground.

ethewaystoavoidmisunderstandings?P66

donotuwordswithdifferentmeanings.

Expressandpronounceclearly.

Putfocusonmainpointofyourview

Donotpretendtounderstand

Askwhennotsureaboutsomething.

Understandthex,educationandculturalbackgrounddifferenceduringcommunication.

Itisimportanttorethinkortranslatewhatpeoplehaveheard.

eopledefinewinning？Whatdoeswinningmeantoyou?Thewealthyman

Gottheachievement

Makebigcontribution

Achieveone’sgoalsinlife

Overcomesomeproblemsorweakness

Career,wealth,fameorpost,andpower

Enjoyonelf

Enjoymylife,livehappilyandtorealizemydream

outhinkisawinnerinyoureye?Why?

Someonecanovercomehisweaknessandrestartafter

e.g:Disabledathletes张海迪

Cruelfatehaschallengeinfront,hedidnotdepresdanddestruction,butthelifeisfullofconfidence,withgreattenacity

andperverancecombatingdia,-studyuniversityEnglishandJapaneandGerman,many

Englishtranslation

egardyourlfasawinnerorlor?Why?

It'shardtosay,Ithinkweareallonthewaytobeawinner.

wearenotprefectinourquality,butweareattempting

aracteristicsofwinnersorlorshave?Preparedness,promptness及时，perverance锲⽽不舍，politeness

Squash:gossip,criticism,indifference

Loveoneanother,befaithful,beloyal,beunlfish,betruthful

Turnupanewidea,turnupwiththedeterminationtodoabetterjob

Sbisintelligence,independent,havegoodcapabilitytodosth

Sbisflexibility

ethingaboutSirWinstonChurchillandAbrahamLincoln.p91

chologyinourdailylifebygivingexamples

stersomebasicrulesofit,wecanmoredeeplyunderstandand

tance,

yswouldratherspendthansave,whilesometendtoparsimony

iesupsychologytoincreabusiness.

asthepricesofsomegoodscomedown,anincreasingnumberofpeoplewillbuyit.

ntwillfeelbetteraftertakingplacebo.

wetallthetruthtoacancerpatient?Giveyourreasons.

Anoptimisticattitudemayhavesomethingtodowithone’shealth.

thmaybreakdownthepatient.

Asthepsychologyofpatient,thinklessofhisdiamayleavelonger.

mmaryofthetextthepsychologyofmoney

Ourindividualmoneyhabitsnotonlyshowourbeliefsandvalues,ypeople,

eoplecanbe

dividedintotwogroups,etheproblems,

psychologistsoftenuamethodcalled“behaviortherapy”.

thnsomeadvice.

MaybeJohn’ssonisnotalearningmaterial,buthehadworkedhard.

agehimtokeeponstudyinginsteadofgettingangry.

himforeverylittleprogress

mhisfatherisalwaysproudofhim,andnomatterwhathappen,

fathermaystandbehindhim.

phisotherinterest.

ndreamtellaccordingtowhatyouhavelearnedinthisunit?Whichdoyouagreewith?

①predictthefuture②warnyouofhealthdangers③provideananswer

toaproblem④stimulatepowerfulphysicalresponinthebody⑤prentaworkofarttoacreativemind⑥makeyoufeel

good⑦makeyoufeelbad⑧pointoutpersonalityflaws⑨showyourealfeelingofsomething

eetsomethingscaredyouorexcitingyou,youmaydreamaboutitatnight.

eopledreamaccordingtothetext

asimplephysicalcau

innerfearsthatareinstantlyrecognized

ithyourclassmatesanyofyourdreamswhichishappy,sad,horrible,weird,orfunny

OnceIwenttravellingwithmyparents,ghtIhaveahorribledreamthatwhenwecrosda

tday,wewenttothe

’y,

’ssoweirdthat

Istillremembertoday.

youlike/disliketoeatanddrink?ble:Ilikepotato,onion,cucumber,pumpkin,celery,I

don’tlikecarrot,thoughIknowit’n’tlikeparsleybecauIcan’ateeatingbroccoli

becauwhenI

wasalittlechild,Iwasforcedtodrinkthesoupmadeofthebroccoli.

Fruit:Ilikealmosteverykindoffruit(getalotofvitaminsfromit)Meat:pork,beef,chicken,especiallythea-foodbecauI

livednearthea.(helptobuildourbody)

Cereal:riceandnoodles(giveusalotofenergyrapidly)

Drink:whenIwasachild,Ilikecoke,juice,llyIgrewup,I’velearnaboutthatthesoftdrinksis

ngetodrinkmineralwater,milk,yoghourt.

(arethefactorsthat)helptodevelopone’atinghabit?Givesomeexamples.

Thetaste(manypeopledon’tlikeeatingvegetables)

Thedifferencesofregion(studentsfromnorthlikenoodlesanddumplingswhilesouthpeoplelikerice;peoplebroughtup

neartheaenjoyafood,whilepeoplefromthewestlikebeefandlamb)

Thefigure(somegirlareonadiettokeepaslimfigure)

Theconceptionofhealth(somefoodsarebadtoeat,thenutrition,)Thefamily(poorrich)

Theculture(thetaboo,differentreligions)

eyourreactionswhenyouesomebodyeatthingsthatyoudon’tlike?Givesomeexample?

Peoplefromonecultureoftenthinkthefoodsthatpeoplefromanother