psychologist

WhenIwasworkingasapsychologist

WhenIwasworkingasapsychologist（心理医生）inEngland,a

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totalktoothers,andI"help?"

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onceortwice.

Usually,hearrivedearlierthanagreed,tookthechessboardand

piecesandbeganttingthemup12Ievengotachancetositdown.

didheneverlookatme?

"Perhapshesimplyneedssomeoneto14hispainwith,"I

thought."PerhapshensthatIrespecthissuffering."Somemonths

later,whenwewereplayingchess,helookedupatme15.

"It"syourturn,"hesaid.

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