time flies

Ithasbeensaid:Whenyouareintrouble,mostofyourfriendsmight

versmightstayawayfromyou,butonlyyour

parentswillneverleaveyou,nomatterwhathappened!That’sright.

Talkingaboutthemostimpressiveincident,Ithinkitismy20-year-old

birthday.

Afterblowingtwentycandles,

Istartedwonderingwhatmy20birthdaysurpriwouldbe.

Ireallywannaknowthat!

Myparentstookmetomybedroom,andturnedonallthelights,

canyoubelievewhathappened?

OhmyGod,IwassoshockedbywhatIwaseinginfrontofme:

therearealltogethertwentyphotonlarged,beautifullyframedand

hungonthewall.

Thowonderfulpicturescapturedtoomanybeautifulmomentsandreminded

meoftoomanyspecialmoments,toomanythe-very-first-timeinmylife.

thefirstkissgivenbymyparents,

thefirsttimewhentheywerebathingme,

thefirsttimewhentheywerefeedingme,

thefirstdaywhenIwasinprimaryschool,

thefirsttimewhenIhadscholarship

anddistinguishedstudentaward

thefirsttimewhenIwasonaceremonyandIwaswearinggraduation

gown

Iamtellingyou

ItwasthefirsttimeinmylifeIwastrulyfeelingtheloveofmyparents

fromthebottomofmyheart

AnditwasalsothefirsttimeIknewtheylovedmeinawaythat

Icouldecouldhearandcouldfeel

Iknewmyparentswerenotreallygoodatexpressingtheiremotionsin

aspokenway

Buthey,thatwasmorethanenoughIneeded!

That’swhylovedthemsomuch.

AndIjustburstedintotears.

Istillrememberbackoneyearwhenmyparentshadnomoney

Costheylotheirjobs,

Sowecouldn’tliveinthehouthatwerentedanylonger

I’llneverforgetthatnightcoztheysatupthewholenightcrying

Butyouknow,lifegoeson.

Atthattime

Ifeellonely,unhappy,unmotivatedandunabletoconcentrateonmystudy.

Butmydaddywastryingharddosomekindoflaboriousjob

SothatIcangotocollege

thefirstkissgivenbymyparents,

thefirsttimewhenmyfolkswerebathingme,

thefirsttimewhentheywerefeedingme,

thefirstdaywhenIwasinprimaryschool,

thefirsttimewhenIgotscholarshipanddistinguishedstudentaward,

thefirsttimewhenIwasdyingmymomshair,

thefirsttimewhenIwaswearinggraduationgown

attheuniversitygraduationceremony..