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nIlove
ThepersonIloveismymother。Sheiskindandcaring。Themother’s
alwaysstandingbehindmeinallthatIdo.
Igrewupleanonmymother,sheismyfirstteacher,shetaughthowto
read,howtowrite,howtogetalongwithotherpeople,
howtobeapositiveandhonestperson。
Shedoeverythingshecantomakemehappyandneverasksfor
anythinginreturn。Motherisabestfriendaswell。Whenwestay
together,esomeproblems,I’llaskher
lwaysthereto
encouragemetodothethingsIwanttodo。Sheisagoodlistener。She
lcomfortwhenI'msad,loveme
whenI’mmad,pickmeupwhenI’mdown,encouragemewhenIneed
ashove。
ferencesbetweenmotherlyloveandfatherlyloveifthereare
any?
Accordingtomypersonalexperiences,motherlovesthenewborninfant.
Boththeirloveareunconditionalandunlfish。ButIcanfeelmotherly
loveisdirect,
other’s
eyes,eelwarm
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Fatherlyloveisdeepbutindirect。Fathermaynotgoodatshowingtheir
lovesorcares。Theyareannoyed,angryanddisappointedbecauthey
eelsafe,
itmaybebecaufemaleareperceptualwhilemalearerational。
3。Whatdoyouthinkmakesagoodheart?
Tobekindthoughtfulforgivingcaringandgeneroushonest
Controlone’stemperesaytogetgetalongwithotherandbeagood
listener
Keepacalmattitude
Apersonwithagoodheartshouldbeabletotreatotherquallyno
matterwhatsheorheis,howsheorhelooksorwhattheyaredoing。
Andalwaysbebravetofacethedifficultinlifeandlovelife。
4。Thedifferentattitudesofpeopletowardsdisabledpeople。what’s
yourattitude?
Somepeoplelookdownupondisabledpeople,thinkingtheybringmany
troubles.
Somepeopletheyarepoor,feltmuchsympathyforthem
Thesocialattitudestowardsdisabledpeopleareoftentooprotection,
tudeisthat
wecan'tlookdownupondisabledpeople,justtreatthemwiththeattitude
towardsordinarypeople。wealsoneedtofightforourrightwhen
conflictwiththem。Wemustfacetheproblem
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5。Whatarethebenefitsofkeepingpets?Andwhatarethetroubles?
P23
Good:alwaysbewith
you。Itwillalwaysstaybyyourside(exceptdead)。Itisagood
listener。
bad:ifpetsarenotoftenbathed,theymaybecomedirtyandsmelled。
'mesitis
toonoisytokeepadog。
6。MakeashortsummaryofthearticleSpeakingDifferent
Languages。P45
Manandwomenlanguageshadthesamewordsbutdifferentmeaning
dependingonthewaytheywereud。Womanwouldtendtoexaggerate
thefactorsandmenreactinanunsupportivemanner,becauthey
mistakenlytaketheexpressionsliterally。Itisimportanttorethinkor
translatewhatpeoplehaveheard.
manydifferencesasyoucanbetweenmenandwomen。
Givesomeexamples.
Manandwomenldommeanthesamethingevenwhentheyuthe
samewords。
Genderdifference(性别差异)
Manandwomenlanguageshadthesamewordsbutdifferentmeaning
dependingonthewaytheywereud。Thereexpressionsweresimilar,
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buttheyhaddifferentconnotations(含义)oremotionalemphasis。
Example:“Ifeellikeyouneverlisten。”Usingtheword“never”isjust
awayofexpressingthefrustration。
Womanwouldtendtoexaggeratethefactor,menmistakenlytakethe
expressionsliterally,reactinanunsupportivemanner。Menuspeech
asameansofconveyingonlyfactsandinformation.
Example:woman:“wenevergoout。"Menrespond”wewentoutlast
week。”
8。Whatarethecausofmisunderstandingsinhuman
communication?Givesomeexamples。
Reasons:pronunciation
Culturaldifference
Character(outgoingintrovert)性格差异
Genderdifference
Emotion(nervouxcited)
CommunicationSkill(gesture)
Situation1
英国人对家人的帮忙会说谢谢;而中国人认为帮助家里人是一种义
务,所以无需言谢.Interactions:helpbetweenfamilymembers
Conventions:politeness
ChineConventions:one’sownobligation,noneedtothankorbe
thanked
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BritishandAmericanConventions:Expectpoliteexpressionslike
'plea’,'thankyou',etc。
Situation2
外国人觉得中国人对待他们是十分友好的,但是有时候会问出一些令
他们感到尴尬的问题,比如问他们的年龄和工资.Interactions:
conversationbetweenpeoplemeetingforthefirsttime
Conventions:conversationaltopics,privacy,taboo,openness,directness
ChineConventions:ManyChinepeopletendtoaskaboutage,
maritalstatus,,
gaperson’sagehelpsthem
uappropriatetermsofaddress,suchas'LaoWang’,’XiaoLi',orkin
termssuchas’uncle’or’aunt’,nepeoplepayalotof
attentiontofamilylife,sonaturallytalkoffamilymembersfeaturesasa
commontopic。Astosalary,sincethereisanationalsystemofsalaries,
peopleusuallydon’tconsideritacretandtheytalkaboutitopenly。
BritishandAmericanConventions:InBritain,weatherandsportsare
commontopics。Sometabooquestions:age,marriageandsalary.
Theareconsideredtooprivateortoopersonaltotalkaboutwhenfirst
meetingsomeone。
Situation3
中国人结伴出游的时候,如果买什么东西,去买的人一般都会按照人
头购买,即便有人客气地说不要;和外国人结伴出游,如果你客气地推
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说不需要某样东西,那么对方真的就不会给你买。
Interactions:offeringrefreshmentsordrinks
Conventions:politeness,individualdecision
ChineConventions:WhenaChineoffersrefreshmentsordrinksto
hiscolleague,hiscolleagueoftendeclinestheofferpolitely,becauhe
doesn'twanttotroublethepersonwhooffersanditalsoshowshis
politeness。Normallythepersonwhooffersstillpreparesorbuys
refreshmentsordrinks,andthiswillbeexpectedbyhiscolleague。
Sharingfoodanddrinkwhengoingouttogetheriscommonamong
colleaguesandfriends。
BritishandAmericanConventions:Respectone’sowndecision,’yes’
meansonewantsit,’no’meansonedoesn't,politenessisusuallyshown
bytheexpression'thankyou’or’plea’.
9。Whataretheimportantfactorsforsuccessfulcommunications?
Speakclearly
Beconfident
Organizewellandputmorefocusonmainidea
Payattentiontothedifferentspeakinghabitofdifferentx,education,
andculturalbackground.
10。Whatarethewaystoavoidmisunderstandings?P66
donotuwordswithdifferentmeanings。
Expressandpronounceclearly。
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Putfocusonmainpointofyourview
Donotpretendtounderstand
Askwhennotsureaboutsomething。
Understandthex,educationandculturalbackgrounddifferenceduring
communication。
Itisimportanttorethinkortranslatewhatpeoplehaveheard。
11。Howdopeopledefinewinning?Whatdoeswinningmeanto
you?
Thewealthyman
Gottheachievement
Makebigcontribution
Achieveone’sgoalsinlife
Overcomesomeproblemsorweakness
Career,wealth,fameorpost,andpower
Enjoyonelf
Enjoymylife,livehappilyandtorealizemydream
12。Whodoyouthinkisawinnerinyoureye?Why?
Someonecanovercomehisweaknessandrestartafter
e.g:Disabledathletes张海迪
Cruelfatehaschallengeinfront,hedidnotdepresdanddestruction,
butthelifeisfullofconfidence,withgreattenacityandperverance
combatingdia,sufferedveretests。Self—studyuniversityEnglish
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andJapaneandGerman,manyEnglishtranslation
13。Doyouregardyourlfasawinnerorlor?Why?
It’shardtosay,Ithinkweareallonthewaytobeawinner。
wearenotprefectinourquality,butweareattempting
14。Whatcharacteristicsofwinnersorlorshave?
Preparedness,promptness及时,perverance锲而不舍,politeness
Squash:gossip,criticism,indifference
Loveoneanother,befaithful,beloyal,beunlfish,betruthful
Turnupanewidea,turnupwiththedeterminationtodoabetterjob
Sbisintelligence,independent,havegoodcapabilitytodosth
Sbisflexibility
15。SaysomethingaboutSirWinstonChurchillandAbraham
Lincoln.p91
16。Thepsychologyinourdailylifebygivingexamples
Psychologyplaysanimportantroleinourdailylife。Ifwemastersome
basicrulesofit,
instance,
1。thepsychologyofmoney。someguyswouldratherspendthansave,
whilesometendtoparsimony
iesupsychologytoincrea
business。
3。Thepsychologyofshopping。Aslongasthepricesofsomegoods
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comedown,anincreasingnumberofpeoplewillbuyit。
chologyinhospital。Apatientwillfeelbetteraftertaking
placebo.
17。shouldwetallthetruthtoacancerpatient?Giveyourreasons.
Anoptimisticattitudemayhavesomethingtodowithone’shealth。
Asoundmindinasoundbody。Thetruthmaybreakdownthepatient.
Asthepsychologyofpatient,thinklessofhisdiamayleavelonger.
18。makasummaryofthetextthepsychologyofmoney
Ourindividualmoneyhabitsnotonlyshowourbeliefsandvalues,but
ypeople,moneyisanimportant
mepeoplecanbeaddictedto
money。Thepeoplecanbedividedintotwogroups,thatis
compulsivespendersandcompulsivebargainhunters。Tosolvethe
problems,psychologistsoftenuamethodcalled“behaviortherapy”。
19。Johnoftengetsangrywithhissonwhodoespoorlyinschooleven
hnsomeadvice。
MaybeJohn’ssonisnotalearningmaterial,buthehadworkedhard。
agehimtokeeponstudyinginsteadofgettingangry.
himforeverylittleprogress
mhisfatherisalwaysproudofhim,andnomatterwhathappen,
fathermaystandbehindhim.
phisotherinterest。
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20。whatcandreamtellaccordingtowhatyouhavelearnedinthis
unit?Whichdoyouagreewith?
①predictthefuture②warnyouofhealthdangers③provideananswer
toaproblem④stimulatepowerfulphysicalresponinthebody⑤
prentaworkofarttoacreativemind⑥makeyoufeelgood⑦make
youfeelbad⑧pointoutpersonalityflaws⑨showyourealfeeling
ofsomething
eetsomethingscaredyouor
excitingyou,youmaydreamaboutitatnight。
21。whydopeopledreamaccordingtothetext
asimplephysicalcau
innerfearsthatareinstantlyrecognized
22。sharewithyourclassmatesanyofyourdreamswhichishappy,
sad,horrible,weird,orfunny
OnceIwenttravellingwithmyparents,
nightIhaveahorribledreamthatwhenwecrosdanarrowbridgeI
pandbrokeoutina
sweat。Thenextday,excitingthatIforgot
’trememberthedreamuntilIreallyfell
intoalake。Luckily,’ssoweird
thatIstillremembertoday。
youlike/disliketoeatanddrink?Giveyourreasons。
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Vegetable:Ilikepotato,onion,cucumber,pumpkin,celery,Idon’t
likecarrot,thoughIknowit’shealthy。AndIdon’tlikeparsley
becauIcan'ateeatingbroccolibecau
whenIwasalittlechild,Iwasforcedtodrinkthesoupmadeofthe
broccoli。
Fruit:Ilikealmosteverykindoffruit(getalotofvitaminsfromit)
Meat:pork,beef,chicken,especiallythea-foodbecauIlived
nearthea。(helptobuildourbody)
Cereal:riceandnoodles(giveusalotofenergyrapidly)
Drink:whenIwasachild,Ilikecoke,juice,llyIgrewup,
I’ngeto
drinkmineralwater,milk,yoghourt.
24。What(arethefactorsthat)helptodevelopone’atinghabit?
Givesomeexamples.
Thetaste(manypeopledon’tlikeeatingvegetables)
Thedifferencesofregion(studentsfromnorthlikenoodlesand
dumplingswhilesouthpeoplelikerice;peoplebroughtupnearthea
enjoyafood,whilepeoplefromthewestlikebeefandlamb)
Thefigure(somegirlareonadiettokeepaslimfigure)
Theconceptionofhealth(somefoodsarebadtoeat,thenutrition,)
Thefamily(poorrich)
Theculture(thetaboo,differentreligions)
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25。Whatareyourreactionswhenyouesomebodyeatthingsthat
youdon'tlike?Givesomeexample?
Peoplefromonecultureoftenthinkthefoodsthatpeoplefromanother
cultureeataredisgustingornauating。
Itemsstrangertome
ImaybecomesickwhenIesomebodyeatthingsthatyoudon’tlike,
forexampletheincts,spider,mou,thebrainofmonkey。
oyouprefertoeattocelebrateyourbirthday?Ina
campuscafeteria,afast—foodrestaurant,anexpensiverestaurant,
orathome?Why?
nddadare
alsothere。
invitemygrandparentsandmybestfriendstocometomyhome。
27。MakeasummaryofCookingandcuisine
P211
nthe(Italian)proverb“WheninRome,doasRomans
do"?Talkabouttheimportanceofknowingdifferentculturalby
givesomeexamples.
(引文"WheninRome,doastheRomansdo"meansthatwhenyouare
visitinganewplace,youshouldtrytodoasthepeopledowhoarefrom
theplace。Itisaverygoodadvicetotouristsandvisitors.
Peoplefromdifferentplaceshavedifferentwaysofacting,soitis
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ethiswill
makethelocalpeoplefeelmorecomfortablewithyouaround,alsoyou
,imitatingthelocalways,youwill
learnmoreabouttheircultureandtradition,also,youwillbeableto
makemanynewfriends。Also,itcouldbefun。Thetraditionsofthe
placeyouarevisitingmightbedifferentandinterestingatthesametime。
Ifyou”doastheRomansdo”,youwilldoalotofthingsthatyou
wouldn’tnormallydo。Whoknows?Maybeyouwilldiscoversomenew
talentsinyou。)
29。WhatcharacteristicscometomindwhenyouthinkaboutChine,
AmericanandBritishpeople?
Britishistraditional,introverted,cautious,Britishpeopleisnoteasy
forapersonalrelationshipwitheachothernoteasilytrusting,dependon
others,onceestablishedfriendshipwiththeBritish,theywillcherish
what,long—termtrustyou。Businessisalsoveryharmonious.
Chineconrvative,introverted,modesty,tolerate,Lackofcreativity
Americanstreattheenthusiasm,optimisticandeasy,easytoapproach,
whenyoufirstmakeanAmerican,hewillbetoyou,andmakeyoueven
talkingfreelyfeeling,
Practical,theylikeeverythingyourlf,thesizeofthethingscan
solve,
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Extravalueofsuccess,theimportantvalueofmytalentandability
30。TalkaboutthediningcustomsinAmericaandChina.p237
China:
Bealittletimeearlier。
TheChineeatfoodwithchopsticks。
America:
Beontime.
Whenaprayerisbeingoffered,keepsilentwithbowedhead。
Uonehandwheneverpossibleandkeeptheotheroneonthelap.
Betweenbites,puttheforkontheplatewhiledrinkingcoffeeor
butteringbread。
Putaspoonwhereitwilllieflat。
Donotusilverwareforeatingbread。
Ifyouwanttoleavethetableduringthemeal,saytothehost“would
youpleaexcumeforawhile"。
Stayfortwoorthreehoursafterthemeal。
31。FindsometaboosinChinaconcerninggift—giving,dressing,
eating,language,gestures,etc。
Donotsaythewords“die”orthewordswiththesameorsimilar
pronunciationtoothers.
Donotndafriendsanumbrella,sinceithasasamepronunciationto
theword“散”whichmeansparation.
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Donotdivideapairintopieces。Ithasasimilarpronunciationtothe
word“分离”,whichmeansparting。
Donotpatonothershead,itisimpolite。
asaconnotationof
“breakinguptherelationship”。
greethat“moneyistherootofallevil”?whyorwhynot?
—--——IwanttobeevilifitmeansIcanhaveallthemoney!
No,actually,Iagreethattheloveofmoneyistherootofallevil.
Moneyisneithergoodnorbad,itisjustatoolforustou。However,
theloveofmoneymaycaupeopletodomanyawfulthings.
Moneyisthecauofallsortsofevil——--lying,stealing,cheating,
robbery,andevenmurder。
Moneyisnotevilinofitlf。Onlyhowdoyougetitandhowdoyou
spenditcouldbe。
greethat“moneyisthesourceofhappiness"whyorwhy
not?
venoaimand
theyfeelconfudandhopeless.
Happinessisnotacommodity。Youcann’tbehappyallthetimejust
becauyouowemoney。
Itemsthatamajorityoftherichcitiessufferahighcriminalrate.
Onlyifyoucanplowyourmoneybackintosomeinvestments,youmay
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feelhappy。
34。whatdoyouthinkarethemostimportant3thingsinlife?
Why?
Family。Myfamilymayalwaysstandbehindmewhenthingstendtogo
wrong。Everyonemayabandonyoubutneveryourfamily.
Friends。MyfriendsmaycomfortmewhenI'msad,lovemewhenI'm
mad,pickmeupwhenI’mdownandencouragemewhenIneeda
shove。Wesharehappinessandsorrowtogether.
eedrivalsthoughsometimeswemayhatethem。Anear
rivalmakesmeworkhardandmakemoreprogress。Withoutarival,
Imaybecomeproudandstoptoworkon.
35。shouldchildrenbepaidfordoinghouwork?Whyorwhynot?
No。
Asoneofthefamilymembers,it’schildren’sdutytodohouworkas
well。
Childrenmayformanattitudethatthehouworkisnottheirbusiness,
andnomoney,nohouwork.
Childrenshouldlearntodohouworksincetheymayliveonthemlves
oneday。
brieflythestoryalettertogod.
AfamercalledLenchondalettertoGodforhelpafterthefarm
damagedbythehail。LenchohopeGodcangivehim100pesostoresow
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thisletterthepostmasterwasmoved。Hetriedhisbest
andgatheredtogether70pesos。Aletterwiththemoneywasntbackto
nchogotthemoney,ghtthepost
—officeemployeeareabunchofcrooksandaskedGodfortheother30
pesos。
37。doyouagreeordisagreethat“moneyismerelyarawmaterial"?
giveyourreasons。Absolutelyyes!
Moneyisjustatoolforustochangeforgoods。
Ifyouplowyourmoneybackintootherinvestments,youmaymake
moremoney.
Moneyismadetomakeourlifemorecolorful。Ifweonlystoreour
money,itmaybecomeworthless。
38。whatwouldyoudoifyouareawarding5000Yuannow?give
yourreasons。
Iwillbankthemoney。Cauwearestillstudents,wegetmoneyfrom
ourparents。money
aimlessly,Iwillfeelashamed。Soit'sbettertobudgetthemoneybefore
using。
eycanbeudafter
mygraduation。
39。whataspectsdoyouconsiderwhenyouaremakingabuying
decision?Giveyourreasons.
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canIaffordit
whatcanIdowithit
isitworthy
isthereenoughmoneyleftifIbuyit
doIlikeitprettymuch
oplebuyfewbutexpensiveclotheswhileothersbuymany
butinexpensiveclothes。Whichgroupdoyoubelongto?Giveyour
reasons。
Ibelongtothefirstgroup。
Theexpensiveclothesismadeofgoodmaterial.
Itcanbekeptforalongtime。
Itwon'tgooutoffashioninveralyears
Itismorecomfortabledressinginexpensiveclothes
41。howaremenandwomen,youngpeopleandoldpeopledifferent
inshoppinghabit?Whatisyourshoppinghabits.
Womentendtospendfarmoretimeinshoppingandbargainingthanmen.
Womenspendthemostoncosmetics,clothesandjewelry。
Seldomdoamanbargainwithasalesmanandtheyspendmoston
sportinggoods,shoesandelectronicgames。
Youngpeopleliketospendhoursshoppingforthemlves。Theypay
moreattentionsonadsandbrandthantheold。Theyareneverafraidof
tryingnewproducts。
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uldlike
keepeverythingthesameandldomtrythenewbrand。
Asayounglady,oshopping
whenIreallyneedsomething。Iusuallymakeashoppinglistandbuy
hostofthingsforthenextquarter。
'syouropinionaboutbargain?
SeldomdoIbargainoverthepriceofsomething,sinceIamnotgoodat
bargaining.
ButitisreallyapleasurewhenIsucceedinbargainingwiththesalesman
abouttheprice。Usuallyifthepriceisacceptable,Iwillbuytheproduct
r,insomemarketsbargainingisacustom.
Everyshoptheretahighpricethenletthecustomerstobargainoutto
thelimit。
43。talkaboutthebenefitsandproblemsofonlineshopping。
Benefit:
①Peoplearebusyinworkingandstudying,resultinginhavinglittle
ternet,youcansimplyfind
theitemsyouarelookingforwithoutgoingthroughstoreafterstore.
②Peoplealsoneednotqueueupanddrawtheirexhaustedbodiesto
archforgoods。
③Mostoftheproductsonlinearealsoondiscount,whicharemore
economicalandpractical。
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④Searchingfortheproducthavinganaffordableprice,acceptable
quality。Comparisonshoppingcapabilities
Problems:
①limitedonlytoonlineurs,peopleneedtobuyacomputerandto
haveinternetconnection。
②Shoppingonlinehasnoguaranteeofqualityofcommodities。
③Hiddencostsofonlineshopping。Deliverycharges,packingand
handingfees.
④theprivacyandcurityofonlineshopping。Fraudconcerns。
44。whatdoesagoodhealthmean?
Agoodhealthmeansbeingmentallyandphysicallyhealth.
Healthypeopleshouldbethowhohavegoodhealthphysicallyand
estrong,energetic,andalertmentally。
45。whatkindsofemotionsandhabitsdoharmorgoodtohealth?
Givesomeexamplestoexplainit。
Harm:
Anger,envy,sadness,frustration,fear—--damageourimmunesystem
Hostilitymaycontributetobreathincrea,heartbeatfasterandharder
andthemusclesofarmsandlegstighten。
Smoke,drink————-heartdia
Good:
Optimistic,merry,cheerful,happy
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Exerciregularly,ahealthydiet,agoodeaterandsoundsleeper
46。whatarethecretsofgoodhealth。
Haveahealthydietanddonoteatordrinktoomuch
Don'tsmokeexcessively
Takeregularexerci
Sleepvenoreighthoursaday
Getregularmedicalcare
Beinamerrymind
Haveanoptimisticattitude
youdowhenyouexperiencesuchnegativeemotionsas
loneliness,sadness,frustration,anger,ect?
SometimesImayfeellonelinessandconfud。ThenImayfindmybest
friendandstaywithher,sayingnothingorjustcallinghernameinalow
voice。Itmakesmefeelbetterwhenthereissomeonekeepmycompany.
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