往事如烟

往事如烟(PastSuchas

Smoke)

Doyoucondemnyourlfforthings

whichyoudid--orfailedtodo--inthe

past?Everyonedoesthisatsomepoint.

However,ifyouwanttoleadasuccessful

andproductivelife,itisimperative

thatyoureleathepastandnotblame

yourlfforeventswhichhavealready

transpiredandwhichcannotbechanged.

Thesuccessfulpersontakesthis

approach:Learnfrompastmistakesand

strategyofberatingyourlfforpast

conductsolvesnothingandonlyrves

atea

viciouscyclewherenegative

experiencesandnegativefeelingsare

reinforced,whichleadstomorenegative

outcomesandmorenegativeyouinsist

ondwellinginthepast,Isuggestthat

youfocusonyourpastsuccess.

Visualizingandthinkingaboutpast

successisanexcellentwaytobuild

u

thinkaboutiswhatyoubecome.

Therefore,whenyouconcentrateonyour

success,youhelptocreatefuture

youfindyourlfstartingtodwellon

pastnegativeexperiences,immediately

haltandremindyourlf:"Thereis

nothingIcandonowwhichwillchange

edavaluable

lessonandwillactinamore

constructivemannernexttime."

Regardlessofwhatyouhavedone--or

failedtodo--theonlysaneapproachis

toacceptitandmoveforward.

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cessful

individualdoesnotwasteprecious

mentalenergydwellingonpastevents

d,heor

sheuspastmistakesaslearning

experiencesandspringboardstofuture

success.